What is the “purity” of a Woman? What does excessive cleanliness mean? A clean young man is ready to please beautiful girls.
There is a type of woman with whom men will always find it easy and pleasant. These women are always looking for an affair. Their appearance is very deceptive; they may look quiet, meek, gentle and fluffy, but inside they have an impenetrable core of deep disregard for others. And this can be read in detail. You just have to look closely to see.
These women often present themselves like royalty, they can be very hot in bed and attractive, but at the same time internally they are extremely unclean.
**** says that this woman stained the sofa with blood, and when asked why the stain was not washed away, she grinned and replied that she could show her underwear. And that she is not involved at all. She turned and left. And her husband then apologized for her for five minutes. Another stole a pack of wet wipes from the apartment. The third opened the bag in the freezer and inquired about its contents. And there are a lot of such stories.
The question arises: maybe it’s really psychologically easier for men to fuck unscrupulous women? They love dirty sex. Maybe this sex is called dirty not because of the positions and what you use to please each other, maybe the dirt in all this is just the internal contents of one or both partners? Therefore, sex with such a woman who does not experience feelings of guilt and banal neatness, for whom the word “dignity” is an empty phrase and is far from being a subject of internal experiences, is much more pleasant and tastier?
Be that as it may, if the male brain switches off for an hour or two, and then comes to its senses, then you still have to be fools to be drawn to this. I understand why they get relief from this, and then hide this truth from themselves.
I once asked a friend why I was not at all attracted to men who were noble to a fault. He replied: “You just need to be able to make them bad, to include wild animals in the good guys.” There is a deal of truth in it. A person who is tormented, self-flagellating and indecisive causes little physical attraction.
But making someone out of someone is an unrealistic and very presumptuous task. It’s just that everyone initially needs to be smart enough to reach the golden mean, and add a little wormhole to their nobility that does not cross the border. And then you will be pleasant to fuck and will have something to respect.
Well, if you are unclean, then pigs have always been indifferent to what they eat. The one you deserve is with you.
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There is a type of woman with whom men will always find it easy and pleasant. These women are always looking for an affair. Their appearance is very deceptive; they may look quiet, meek, gentle and fluffy, but inside they have an impenetrable core of deep disregard for others. ...
"/>Beauty is, first of all, health. And this, in turn, implies a well-groomed appearance. Moreover, you don’t have to have a lot of money – you can look great without spending a lot of money. It is enough to acquire several useful habits and never neglect them.
Charming smile
To make it absolutely brilliant, make it a rule to visit the dental office once every six months for a complete check-up. On other days, keep your teeth in good condition. Of course, you shouldn’t bleach them to an unnatural shine, just don’t forget about oral hygiene.
Toned body
Exercise works wonders. This could be swimming, tennis, gym exercises, fitness, regular jogging in the fresh air, or just physical exercise at home. In general, there are many options. All that remains is to choose something to your liking and wallet.
healthy lifestyle
A well-groomed appearance is impossible if you are addicted to bad habits. Snacking on heavy foods, smoking, and drinking alcohol have a negative impact on health, the condition of the skin and internal organs. Follow your daily routine and give up dangerous hobbies.
Correct make-up
Too much makeup on your face can add years to your appearance. It looks untidy, defiant, unnatural. Learn to apply decorative products, observing the golden mean. Emphasize your beauty by highlighting your strengths. Focus either on the eyes or on the lips, but not on both. And, of course, never confuse evening and daytime types of makeup.
Graceful gait
A person who takes care of himself must be able to present himself beautifully even to strangers. Stooping, haste, and closedness are disharmonious with grooming. So watch your gait: walk slowly, sway your hips slightly and keep your back straight.
Neat eyebrow shape
If eyes are the mirrors of the soul, then eyebrows are their beautiful frame. Don’t be lazy to do your eyebrow correction at least twice a week at home or in the salon, because chaotically growing hairs indicate neglect of your appearance.
Clean nails
They must be careful, because most often when meeting or getting to know each other, people extend their hands to each other. Ugly nails will immediately reveal your uncleanliness, and your interlocutor will have an unflattering opinion. It is better to trim them and then decorate them with interesting designs, bright or colorless varnishes.
Nice perfume
The light, unobtrusive scent has its own charm. But you shouldn’t overdo it with perfumes, choosing too caustic, aggressive compositions and “watering” yourself with them from head to toe. Preference should be given to soft aromas in small quantities and applied only to a clean body. Otherwise, they will mix with the smell of sweat and lose their charm.
The right shoes
Your goal is to create a holistic, harmonious image, and every detail should correspond to it. Shoes are not in last place. Good, high-quality, fashionable shoes, ballet flats, boots, etc. are in favor. By the way, you also need to take care of them so that they do not lose their original beauty.
Drinking enough fluids
For a healthy appearance, you should drink a strictly defined amount of water. The best is half a glass every 120 minutes. You can break up the monotony by making yourself a drink with healthy herbs and fruits. The main thing is to never forget about such a useful little thing.
Maintaining a culture of eating
Even if you are alone at the table and you are bored, you should not read a book or watch TV while eating. You should also not neglect correct posture: sitting up straight will help your digestion. Act like an aristocrat, use all the cutlery, and it will gradually become a habit.
Following the rules of daily care
Pay attention to your skin: it suffers greatly from heat, cold, sunlight, dust and other unfavorable factors, so it needs a special regime. Moisturizing, toning, cleansing - these are the main weapons that will help you achieve the desired results. Do these procedures at the beginning and end of the day to look neat.
Morning work-out
Devote at least 10 minutes to it. The most basic exercises are enough to cheer you up. Choose a complex that will target your weakest points. For example, for the abs, legs, buttocks, etc.
Cold and hot shower
Make it a rule to take a shower after waking up and before going to bed: it is beneficial for the whole body. Get used to cleanliness, develop a stable habit so that you never have the thought of missing at least one procedure due to laziness or fatigue.
Following a strict routine
To keep your body healthy, you need to stimulate digestion: drink 1 glass in the morning. warmed water with a couple of drops of lemon juice. After 10 min. - table. l. flaxseed oil (for weight loss and stimulation of metabolism). After 30 min. You need to have a full and hearty breakfast so that you have enough energy until lunch. You can have dinner after six, but 180 minutes before bedtime. And remember: you shouldn’t drink water while eating; it’s better to do it after 40 minutes.
Complete wardrobe
Wear only loose, neat clothes that look good on your figure. It is not at all necessary to have only branded outfits in your closet - you need to learn how to combine even cheap clothes to advantage, and then they will look no worse on you. Check out your wardrobe: you should definitely have a nice black dress, a cashmere coat, classic trousers, a warm, fashionable sweater, a formal blouse, and a tapered pencil skirt. Choose stylish and appropriate accessories for them, because jewelry makes the look very charming.
Clean things
Even if it seems to you that only you know your shortcomings, this is a big misconception. Often, stained collars and dirty bra straps peeking out from under a summer outfit cannot hide from the gaze of passers-by. Even such little things, despite all the perfection of the image, indicate uncleanliness and neglect. Wash your bra regularly - every two days, and change your panties and socks daily.
Fighting sweating
People sometimes get used to their own smell of sweat and do not realize how noticeable it is to others. It is worth getting rid of sweat not only because of the unpleasant aroma, but also for the sake of a neat appearance: circles under the armpits look sloppy and spoil the fabric.
Beautiful speech
Self-development
Again, in order not to spoil the first impression of an attractive appearance, you need to pay attention to your personality. No one forces you to cram quotes from prominent people. On the contrary, if you decide to use them to show off your intelligence in everyday conversation, it will look ridiculous. This is where popular science/educational films and books come in handy. It’s also a fascinating hobby. Then you will become an interesting conversationalist and will always find something to keep the conversation going.
Last time we talked about what qualities a man needs to find harmony in a relationship, now it’s the turn of the weaker sex of humanity. Yes, yes, precisely the weak, and this is his strength. Feminine power. :) So. What are the best qualities of a woman that can help create a friendly family, in which there is a place for love and no place for quarrels?
It should be said that the most difficult problems, as a rule, are in family relationships, where everything is so complicated that not a single psychologist can help. No one can help except the spouses themselves.
And in order to restore the desired peace at home, it is necessary not to demand that your partner change, but to work on developing the missing qualities yourself.
This is especially true for women, because a woman is responsible for family relationships, including close and distant relatives. While a man is more in touch with the outside world and cares about protecting his home and family.
The best qualities of a woman:
First best quality Cleanliness
Needless to say, every woman should keep her body clean. She will always look well-groomed and therefore very attractive. Even at home, when no one sees her. But this quality concerns not only her own appearance.
If she does not keep her husband and children's clothes clean, she is unlikely to have this quality. In addition, a sure indicator of cleanliness is the order in the house, which a woman tries with all her might to maintain.
In her closet, every thing knows its place, and there is no chance of anything getting lost. For this reason, she can help her husband cope with the search for clothes, because this can be problematic for him, especially in a hurry. (And there is no point in being offended by him if he does not remember where his dress shirt is; the woman herself will find it and prepare it for “use”).
Second best quality Chastity
This quality is very similar to the previous one, but if cleanliness is more about external manifestations, chastity is the culture and purity of a woman’s mind. Such a woman not only will not dare to cheat on her chosen one, she will not even allow moral betrayal in her thoughts.
For her, the choice of a spouse will always be the best. And if this is not noticeable from the outside, she simply decided that it was so. From now on, she will not waste energy thinking about how she could somehow get married more successfully. In addition, no man is able to outshine her husband, even if he is a hundred times stronger, more beautiful or more soulful than him.
Showing chastity, a woman will not make friends with other men who are not fit to be her fathers or sons. Here we are no longer talking about age as such, but about preventing flirting and, as its faithful companion, lust.
A chaste wife will not have any secrets from her husband; on the contrary, she will entrust all her most intimate things only to him. For her, her husband is the eldest in the family and she needs to consult with him.
For this reason, a woman should not hide if one of the other men is pursuing her. Who, if not her husband, will protect her? But it is unlikely that a sufficiently chaste woman will have such incidents...
The third best quality of a woman is Mastery
This is a collective concept that includes skill as a housewife, wife and mother.
A woman, like a skilled craftswoman, skillfully does any woman's work: sewing, cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing, etc. Not only is this not a burden to her, but it brings a certain pleasure and therefore, in her hands, the matter progresses.
Her skill in providing a man with sexual satisfaction is manifested in her service in her intimate life. She should know not only the best ways to give her man unforgettable pleasure, but also how to give a body massage to calm and relax him after a busy day at work.
There is such a cunning trick that makes all husbands simply go crazy: foot massage. Try doing this to him more often, and you will see how the relationship magically changes for the better.
A woman’s skill is manifested in her understanding of how to properly build relationships with her husband, children, parents and relatives. In this case, a woman, showing the accompanying quality of tolerance, will never turn into a victim.
And if her husband behaves inappropriately, she will find a wise way out of the situation. She knows the tactics of behavior in a quarrel and after a quarrel, if any occur. She skillfully builds relationships between everyone: children, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, etc.
A woman is a Psychologist with a capital P in the family. Who, if not she, will calm down loved ones if they come home upset. Who, if not the woman, will take care of peace in the family, because her inner state is reflected in the relationship. If she is depressed, there are conflicts in the family. And vice versa. Because
Family relationships are an accurate indicator of the wife’s internal mental state!
If they come unglued, it means the woman is not satisfied with something. But it hurts a man to see this, and he, noticing the slightest disorder, will certainly ask: “What happened? How do you want it to be?” And he will meet her desires if he is able to fulfill them.
A woman does not need to shout or prove that she is right. These are unfeminine ways. And in general, women are the weaker sex, and their methods of education should be more sophisticated.
Thus, by developing these best qualities, a woman indirectly (on a subtle level) influences her partner, thereby developing his best qualities as a man. To paraphrase the famous phrase of the great thinker F. Nietzsche, we can say: “For only a real woman will awaken the man in a man.” And vice versa, no one has canceled it yet.
Ponomarenko Lyudmila
Let's start with the fact that the entire female beauty industry is built on innocent deception: A woman wears perfume and smells something that is not her own, and in this she is lying
Let's start with the fact that the entire female beauty industry is built on innocent deception:
A woman wears perfume and smells something she doesn't belong to, and she's lying about it.
A woman applies makeup and lies again, showing a face that is not hers.
The woman emphasizes her “push-up” bust, deceives again.
This seemingly innocent lie robs a woman of her purity. But that's not all. We women are not pure when we demand from ourselves the standards of feminine behavior. After attending trainings on how to become feminine, women begin to strive for standards of feminine behavior. Then they demand standards of masculine behavior from men. But such “standardized” men and women will play in relationships like beekeepers in a sandbox. The truth is that before you become a woman or a man, it is important to become yourself.
Flirting as a defensive reaction. Thanks to flirting, women hide their vulnerability. They shoot with their eyes, ingratiate themselves, send signals. In flirting there is no risk of being rejected, which means it is safe: if a man does not catch the signal, it is his own fault. On the contrary, being open as you are is risky; you may be rejected. Psychological rejection can be equated to murder. The one who is rejected is not considered alive, worthy of attention. Surely many of us have “died” at least once in a relationship when, in response to our purity and nakedness, we were rejected. In our purity we are alive and vulnerable, like children. But often in relationships, we show only our strengths: professional qualities, qualities of a wife and housewife.
If you remove the “living” side from a relationship, it turns into a stereotype of behavior. This manifests itself, for example, in the way people approach marriage. Often a man chooses his wife based on a set of qualities. Having met someone suitable according to his parameters, he begins courtship according to a well-known scenario. After the wedding, as a rule, the courtship ends. He has already “bought” his wife, the time has come to use her as a household appliance. Ironically, even a wedding dress is traditionally white, like a washing machine or refrigerator
We try to insure ourselves in relationships. If you give yourself to a man, there is a risk that he will use you only for sex. At the same time, trying to insure yourself against such disappointment means being cunning. Trying to insure oneself, the partner demands fidelity from the other in the relationship. But this demand is violent, it means: give me your soul, all your choices, your living life, so that I can be at peace with you. But this, as a rule, ends in hatred and accusations: “You are no longer alive. Where is the passion? In fact, safe toys are made only for children; in a live relationship, insuring yourself means putting your soul in a condom.
We treat our partners like consumers. In the purity of a relationship, the most important message is “Thank you for existing.” And often relationships begin without expectations or conditions, like between two deities. But then this purity is lost somewhere and complaints begin: “Why didn’t you shave?”, “Why are the flowers not the right ones?”, “I put on an uncomfortable dress for you, you should sacrifice something too.” Instead of allowing the other to be what he wants to be, to respect his line of fate, conditions are imposed on him. The opposite story is treating the meeting as a gift. A woman who is in love chooses according to the principle: either he or I will “die.”
We're upset. A holistic person has a head, feelings and actions that are united. Hence the verb “get upset” when integrity is lost. When a person thinks one thing, says another, and does a third. For example, he goes to the sea to relax, but at the same time thinks about work. Or when a woman has sex without meaning to. The body reacts to a lack of integrity with illnesses because there is an internal lie.
We are afraid to be vulnerable. The loss of “purity” begins when the fear of appearing vulnerable arises. Since this fear cannot be shown, a person begins to be cunning, to pretend to be something other than what he really is. As a result, a person begins to lie to himself.
What is purity? And this is allowing yourself to live from your inner truth. At the same time, there is an understanding that the world can react to this truth in any way it likes, it can even condemn or reject it. In purity, the soul is exposed, when there is no stone in one’s bosom and no hidden thoughts, when at the level of relationships a person is not afraid to be naked.
What does it take to cleanse yourself? Doctors know that to treat many chronic diseases it is necessary to transfer them to an exacerbation phase. For a person, such an exacerbation often becomes catharsis. When so many emotions (fear, resentment) have accumulated that some situation becomes the last straw. Then the pain goes away, the person accepts it, cleanses himself through the pain and relaxes. Meditation and relaxation techniques will not bring about change.
This can be achieved if you consciously go to overcome difficulties within yourself.
Let's talk about girls.Guys, how do you check chicks for cleanliness?
I have 3 criteria: nails, toilet and stove.
I watch these 3 subjects from all the girls automatically. Automatically. No matter what my attitude towards them is.
Nails must be well-groomed. Not necessarily extensions or anything out of the ordinary, but simply well-groomed. At a minimum, clean, neatly cut, filed, without burrs and varnished. The most arcane behavior is when a girl bites her nails or bites the skin around them. Such a woman is usually sloppy, fat, smells bad and immediately evokes associations with a stable.There is also a mourning border under the nails. I'm not talking about shit under the nails, like children in the sandbox or vegetable stall saleswomen. We are talking about those cases when the nails are not perfectly clean. It could be a dark coating, some kind of dregs or uneven shade, marks from a pen, scuff marks or scratches when a woman picked through wool somewhere, smelled something, combed someone from somewhere, picked around somewhere or ran around in anything.
When I visit, I pay attention to the toilet and stove.
The porcelain nest must be in such a condition that you can drink from it. Why go far - right now I’ll go, as an example, I’ll take a photo of my little girl, who is already at least 8 years old, and attach it to the vyser.
Scratched by chocolate, or overgrown with moss on the outside, or dusty, or dirty in places hard to reach with a brush, freckled with drizzle, with rusty stains from water, or splattered with the urine of upright family members, the toilet immediately honestly admits that the women in this house only have to learn to complete the questionnaire grunt.
I won’t take a photo of my stove, because it hasn’t been washed for a week, and I’m ashamed, bgggg, but it should shine. For the little ones, the stove is a sad sight - a crusty surface covered with grease, salt, crumbs and other food debris, stained and stained.
The stove and surroundings of the entire powder room should be ideal. A dirty stove, carefully washed dishes, pieces of paper, bits of wood, bits and pieces, leftovers, a dirty refrigerator, the stench from it, cutlery not in the right places, all sorts of dubious items anywhere, a dirty floor, a scum under the sink, a bucket that has been breaking for at least a day from garbage, dust on the windowsill, grabbed and greasy handles of cabinets and doors, like in a miner's cabin, a dump on the table - clear signs of clogging.Here, by the way, regardless of cleanliness, you can immediately see what kind of cook she is. A good housewife always has something to eat. Even if there is a risk of getting pistols, I go into the refrigerator and see what’s there and how. If there are no ready-made foods in the refrigerator, and the only raw materials are garlic, a couple of onions, a tired chicken, medicine and “mayanesic,” then this girl is, at best, fucking material.
At the same time, in addition to the above, there is always some kind of forge in the refrigerator in a steamed jar, the nature of which the girl finds it difficult to remember, and expired products are simply disposed of anyway. Delay puts a bullet in the diagnosis.
Look for a delay. Any lazy creature keeps in the refrigerator until the last moment any semi-finished products that accidentally came into its possession, until they begin to decompose and stink throughout the entire lair.
Look at the ketchup, dumplings, examine the eggs (chicken!), all sorts of semi-homnocutlets and other items for expiration dates.Such sheep eat depressingly the same: breakfast - coffee with sweets and other cookies, lunch - at school or at work in a local rygalovka, any compound feed or pie bought around the corner, dinner - some kind of preshirak or, at best, the same dumplings from semi-finished products, the remains of which then rot in the refrigerator, and other nonsense.
Usually the listed advantages, except for the ability to cook, go together, but even if there is only one, then there is every chance that the girl is a Chukhan.
Such chukhan women are too lazy to shave their legs and other parts of the body if they don’t have sex, they can be too lazy to wash their hair or shave their cap, they will easily put on faded or faded panties with elastic bands that have come out, if they are favorite and comfortable, they will easily allow themselves to wear clothes that they already wear. in an amicable way, the washing machine is crying, they will brush their teeth for 15 seconds just to show off, before receiving guests at home they will collect the lying-about junk in a heap and stuff it in a lump in the closet, and their hanger is the back of a chair or an open door, and the shelf is the bed or the floor .
Optionally, you can pay attention to shoes.
A pixie-haired girl will use her last money to buy one expensive pair and will look after and monitor it, and a chukhan girl will buy a whole clip of gonopedals that suit her like a saddle for a cow, which she will quickly wipe with a rag in the morning and run about her business.If it’s not a problem for you to get slapped or heard that you’re an asshole or a freak, you can look in the girl’s bag. The contents of the chukhanka's bag are an eagle-eyed arctic fox. You don’t even have to list the qualifying features, and everything will become clear.
Now post your observations in the comments.