Calm, just calm. Children. How to remain calm and self-controlled Psalter to help parents

Who are calm children? What kind of child can be called calm? When a child is born, he is assessed using the Apgar scale, which takes into account how quickly and strongly he cried, how he moves and other indicators.

A newborn who is too calm is more likely to alert doctors than to please them. If the baby sleeps all the time, sucks poorly and gains little weight, such calmness will not bring joy to the parents. A child who is too calm should definitely be examined by a neurologist.

Don’t be surprised if the doctor advises you to stir up the baby; such babies are often prescribed infant swimming training, dynamic swimming, and any measures that can move the baby. Such babies suck at the breast sluggishly, mothers lose milk, and the child is switched to formula. Try to maintain breastfeeding even in such a difficult situation, offer your breast to the baby as often as possible, pump and supplement with your milk from a bottle or spoon, because a weakened baby really needs his mother’s valuable nutrition. When a child begins to gain normal weight, he will immediately catch up with his peers in development.

Quiet infants often do not hold their heads up precisely because they sleep almost all the time, move little, and therefore do not develop their muscles and gain weight poorly. Don't worry, special exercises, frequent feedings and your love will definitely help in this situation. Find a good neurologist who will observe the baby and tell you how to act correctly in this situation. If your baby is gaining weight well, developing according to schedule, crying a little and smiling a lot, rejoice, it means you are normal, healthy, in a good way calm child .

The baby grows, develops, and by the age of one year, as a rule, most children begin to walk and actively explore the world around them. It is not the physical, but the emotional and mental development of the child that comes to the fore. Children begin to show character. Psychologists distinguish four types of temperament in people, including children.: choleric, phlegmatic, melancholic and sanguine.
Choleric children are never calm, these are excitable, active, playful, mischievous, cocky, and often pugnacious children. Parents of such children can only dream of a quiet life. Psychologists advise raising such children in the calmest possible environment, eliminating emotional overload, and developing perseverance in children. Cholerics are good speakers, the leaders of children's groups, they adapt well to a new environment, are easy-going and are not afraid of change.

Phlegmatic children, on the contrary, are very calm kids. They are slow, unfussy, do not like change, and have difficulty adapting to a team. Psychologists advise such children to be disturbed more often, taught to play active games, taught to quickly switch attention, and develop curiosity in them. But these children have an excellent memory, they persistently and judiciously move towards their goal.

Melancholic children are very sensitive, easily hurt, any increase in tone, unfair punishment can cause such a child severe stress. These children are usually calm and very obedient; they have difficulty adapting to a team because of their emotional weakness and touchiness. They need to be encouraged to take initiative, develop courage and activity in them, but remember that the souls of such children are delicate and delicate, so they require special care and protection from loved ones. Typically, melancholic people are creative individuals; they grow into talented writers, artists, and poets.

Sanguines are the most cheerful, friendly and sociable children. Despite their active life position, constant fun and activity, these children have a very even and calm character, they are obedient, non-conflict, and calmly react to punishment. Such a child needs to be taught perseverance and accuracy, develop stable interests in them, and teach them to finish what they start.

It’s impossible to say for sure whether it’s good or bad when a child is calm.. You need to look at the situation in which he shows this quality. All children are different. raising a calm, strong and self-confident child is not an easy task. If you yourself are calm and reasonable parents, sensitive to your child, then your baby will be cheerful, purposeful and friendly.

"After all, we are what we think.
Our emotions are slaves to our thoughts,
and we, in turn, are slaves of emotions."
Elizabeth Gilbert

Practical transformation training from Tatyana Egorova:

"Iron endurance:
How can you learn to control yourself, stay calm and achieve obedience from your child in just 7 lessons?”

A step-by-step system for managing your negative emotions in moments of stressful and crisis situations when communicating with a child!

At first glance, your child’s whims and disobedience provoke your angry response and the vicious circle closes... But there is a way out!

During the training, we work with your attitudes and behavioral stereotypes, which directly affect the entire process of your communication with your child. By changing yourself, you radically change the behavior of your son or daughter: from capricious and screaming - into a calm and happy child! And indeed it is.

Letter from Egorova Tatyana,
psychologist, expert on parent-child relationships:

Dear mom, dear dad, raising children from 1 to 7 years old.

If you have visited this page, you are most likely concerned about the following questions:

• You were happily expecting a child, dreamed of being good and wise parents, but day after day you are bitterly convinced that you cannot cope with your anger, screaming at your son or daughter.

• Are you tired of saying the same thing every day and seeing zero reaction from your children, as if these words of admonition, warning and caution do not apply to them at all...


• Sometimes you feel as if you are running in a vicious circle: day after day the same problems, the same scenario, the same negative feelings and emotions and there seems to be no end to it...


• Do you periodically have thoughts: “What am I doing WRONG?”, “Where is my mistake?”, “Why can’t I persuade my child to do something necessary?”


• You are often tormented by a feeling of guilt due to the fact that you cannot cope with your explosive emotions and, in a state of passion, you can say a lot of hurtful words and/or spank your baby, whom you carried with such love for all 9 months...


• Every time you find yourself at a dead end, not knowing how to react to this or that problematic situation in education, and sometimes it seems to you that the only way out is to “cut the Gordian knot” with decisive measures: raise your voice... threaten with eloquent prohibitions... slap you on the head.


• You have a mountain of unfulfilled tasks accumulating due to the fact that in trying to cope with the whims of your child you have lost a lot of precious time, strength and energy.


• When you are outraged by your child’s behavior and yell at him in the hope that he will stop it, you notice that such tactics bring only a short respite, after which the problem behavior is repeated and even becomes more frequent...


• You feel that you have exhausted all your moral and physical strength, your entire stock of knowledge, and there’s “simply nowhere to go”…

You seriously want to change the situation, learn to see the origins of problems, fully understand yourself and control yourself; raise your baby wisely, with maternal love and sensitivity...

Now imagine for 1 minute...

• You wake up in the morning to start a new day with fresh energy with a calm, sweet and responsive child.


• You have already forgotten the last time you yelled at a child for some kind of obstinacy or fault. Now it’s easy for you to negotiate with your baby, because he trusts you, as he is confident in his need, safety and parental love.


• Your inner state can be described as “I am content and calm,” “My heart and soul are filled with joy, warmth and tenderness.”


• You are full of strength and energy and, together with your children, are happy to plan upcoming activities and games.


• You manage to redo important things because you know how to sort and distribute them according to the degree of urgency and relevance. Your rest is wisely combined with workload.


• You are happy to meet your husband after work, because the children were happy to help prepare for dad's arrival.


• The whole day was spent in active cooperation and the children felt like real helpers.


• In a crisis situation, if it suddenly arises, you will clearly understand why it arose. The acquired knowledge and techniques help to stop anger in a timely manner and promptly extinguish whims in the bud.


• Your self-control and calmness help children change themselves, cope with themselves, their feelings, because you create conditions and climate in the family in which whims and hysterics do not linger.

And even if they do arise (after all, there is no child completely WITHOUT whims - then it’s just a doll), you have a full arsenal of excellent tools for developing your own strategy specifically for each child.

Why am I writing to you, and who am I?
to help solve these issues?

The main reason is, of course, my personal experience.

Without him, I would not have been able to better understand the problem of managing myself, my angry outbursts and feelings of irritation when things don’t go as planned... if I had not experienced such an experience myself...

It’s true what they say: to get to know a person better, take him to the mountains: “there you’ll understand who he is,” in other words, when you eat “a pound of salt” with him.

I won’t drag you to the mountains, don’t worry, but I already ate this peck of salt a long time ago :) in my family, with my daughter. And that’s why I understand you well...

Before getting married and having a child, I always considered myself quite even and calm when it came to communicating with other people. After all, for me, every person is another valuable experience, another interesting book that I want to open, talk about, discuss, understand his motives, goals and aspirations...

I remember that if any outbursts of emotions or complex conflicts arose between my friends and acquaintances, I often looked for how to reconcile these two sides, tried to understand what motivated each side in a particular case and help deal with myself and my opponent.

When I succeed in a “truce mission,” I usually feel great relief because I worry about everyone.

Therefore, at one time I went to study as a psychologist. It is precisely thanks to this desire - to understand a person, starting from those early childhood years, when everything is just being laid, including the emotional-volitional sphere, and ending with the period of adulthood, maturity, when the basic lines of life have already been formed.

I can say that only after the birth of my daughter, when I became a mother, did I understand that it is not enough just to know and see the system of relations between parents and children - personal practice is important. Nothing educates as well as your own child :).

I was not always able to remain calm, especially when fatigue set in and there was a lot that needed to be done. Plus, after my daughter’s first year, while on maternity leave, I started taking on additional work on the Internet, and a little later I opened my own psychological Center “Your Child Psychologist” online, where parents can come and find answers to their questions.

Much of what is there was passed through the prism of my relationship with my daughter. I was looking for effective ways to communicate with children, how to cope with their whims, behavioral problems, with my feelings and manifestations of emotions.

Because in the “Parent-Child” system, it is the parents who, with their emotional and situational behavior and personal attitude, lay down for the child a basic model of the world in which he will live independently.

And I found them, passed them through myself, my personal and professional experience.

(me and my daughter :))

Yes, this places great responsibility on us, parents, for how exactly we lead our little one through life, what basic feelings we instill in him. Will he be calm or nervous, will he be able to make friends and communicate with peers or will he become uncontrollable, with what emotional baggage will he go through life and with what feeling: “I can do anything” or “I’m a loser, the world is against me?”

Every time I analyze the situations in the newspaper "My Family", and I see how much could be done if the heroes of this or that story could cope with themselves and their emotional negative state... If only they knew HOW...

So, to help you cope with your negative emotions and feelings, learn to build a warm, trusting relationship with your child, I have developed

Basic Development Program
Your emotional response
and blocking negative feelings

Here is a short Program that you can use to step by step bring order to your emotional sphere, work out the mechanism of the emergence of negative emotions (irritation, screaming, anger, etc.):

1. Take care of yourself first - this is the right balance of work and rest, pampering yourself and your loved one (if you do not surround yourself with love, you will not be able to internally protect yourself from your explosion, and this explosion will affect others).


2. Put things in order in your mental attitudes (this is your internal program, life attitudes from childhood, behavioral stereotypes that are given to you by the “unconscious self” - this is where automatisms in your explosive behavior are born).


3. Explore your strengths and weaknesses in temperament and personality, i.e. what is genetically inherent in you.


4. Work through your attitude to the situation “As it is” from the position of “two sides”.


5. Expand your knowledge about the psychology of your child, because certain situations can be easily avoided if you UNDERSTAND what is behind them, what features are in the psychology of your son or daughter’s behavior. When there is understanding, a solution comes.


6. Increase your emotional level of communication, i.e. This is an increase in its efficiency, so as not to provoke conflict situations along the established track (development of algorithms and communication schemes).


7. Get tangible results - calmness and self-control, quick resolution of difficult situations without hassle and tears.

The effectiveness of the Program depends on whether you paid enough attention to individual details during the passage of each block.

At first glance, everything is quite simple...

However, as many of our mothers have already seen, real help from a psychologist is needed here.

Do you know HOW exactly to work through each step of this Program in order to acquire the ability to control yourself and cope with your negative emotions at the stage of their occurrence?

Have you ever thought:

• In what way do you program yourself to be irritated and scream?


• Why do you get the same result in your emotional reactions?


• What actually triggers anger?


• Why do children only stop bad behavior when you get angry and yell?


• How to break this vicious circle?


• Where to start working on yourself so that it is effective?


• What mental attitudes need to be addressed first?


• Is it bad to let off steam? And if…. Yes?


• How to anticipate a crisis situation and protect yourself in time?


• What algorithms and techniques are there in conversation that block the development of conflict?


• Where to find “bags of patience and endurance”?

Now they write me a lot of letters asking me to understand this or that situation in communication with a child, some problems, conflicts. And in 97% of cases, the root of the problems turns out to be the parents themselves, their inability to remain even, calm and understanding during the period of the child’s whims and disobedience.

It is especially difficult for those whose children are going through age-related crises and for those whose parents hope that “maybe it will resolve...!”

You will receive answers to these and many other questions in our new long-awaited training: “Iron Grit: How to remain calm when children do not listen.”

Transformational training

"Iron endurance:
How to stay calm when children don't listen?

7-day practical training with feedback
and analysis of mental attitudes and situations

Leader of the training: Egorova Tatyana, psychologist, expert on child-parent relationships.

“Iron Grit: How to Remain Calm When Children Don’t Listen” is a training that was asked for from the moment it became clear that it was not enough for parents to get their hands on working techniques and techniques for effectively interacting with a capricious and disobedient child.

It is necessary to solve the problem at the subconscious level, with yourself, with an emotional response.

This is a practical 7-day race, during which we will work through the entire Program step by step:

• Let's determine the true goals and where to move.


• Let's take care of ourselves and restore our strength.


• Let's put things in order in our mental attitudes.


• Let's study our starting advantages and strengthen them.


• Let's work through our attitude and focus on the key points of the problem.


• We will deepen practical knowledge of your child’s psychology


• Let's increase our emotional level of communication.


• We will work on algorithms and communication schemes that lead to a solution to the brewing conflict.

You will do all these points under my supervision and with feedback:

• Identify internal attitudes and beliefs that provoke irritation, anger and yelling.


• Recognize a chain of consequences in yourself that leads to an outbreak of negative emotions.


• Learn to block anger at the initial stage without harming your body and psyche.


• You will find the initial “START” button, which triggers the biochemical reactions of readiness for anger.


• You will save the nervous system from development and overload of affective feelings.


• Identify your ineffective behavior patterns.


• Learn to reprogram your perception of the situation with your child.


• You will reveal the blocks of the subconscious that force you to run in the same circle.


• Get clear algorithms for liberation from the traps of consciousness.


• Deal with feelings of hyper-responsibility, guilt, dissatisfaction.


• Draw up an individual program for correcting your situation with your child.


• Make “positive cards” and “emotional warmth” for the whole family


• Plan a route through “oases” to recharge your energy.

Here are the reviews and results of those who have already worked with me:

“The text of the training is printed out and literally becomes a reference book”

I am now both happy and sad at the same time.
It’s sad because the time allotted for completing the training in the group has ended. And I’m happy because I went to the end and so much knowledge and experience remains with me.

The information provided in the training is almost priceless. And the comments of the participants were very important to me, since they contain many examples of problems and their solutions. In them I found answers to many questions that worried me.

Before the training, I already had some idea about age-related crises, how to cope with hysterics and whims. But the knowledge was scattered and somehow “smeared”. I think I know it, but I don’t use it because I don’t know how to do it correctly.

Tatyana provides information clearly, structured and very dense. Each day of the training must be carefully worked out so as not to miss anything. I was able to do some things easily, others I have already used before, and some things are not working yet due to my son’s age. When I find myself in a situation from which I see no way out, I return to the training materials and find answers there.

And it’s very heartwarming that there are tools there to solve and prevent problems of all ages that we will have to grow through with our son.

It was also convenient that there were audio and text versions of the training. In front of my son, I could listen, and when I worked while he was sleeping, I could read. The text of the training is printed out and literally becomes a reference book.

I also want to say about homework. When you listen to the castes, everything seems clear. Then you read the comments and realize that, in general, everything has already been said. And then you start writing - and then discoveries appear! You begin to better understand yourself, your husband and your child.

Tatyana, thank you for your work!

Natalya Serebryakova, son Georgy, 2 years old, 2 months old.

"Now we have a map that will make our journey successful"

This is a great event for me and my family!
The training was as necessary for me and all my loved ones as air - with the birth of my son, the situation with my daughter’s behavior began to go beyond all acceptable limits. Our children are late and very welcome, but despite all our efforts, we would not have managed it without professional help.

And participation in the training became such a help and a magic wand. We bought it in the summer and little by little did the tasks together with my husband (the latter circumstance brought us closer, which is good news), but we only started to speed up and finish it now. There were circumstances that almost derailed our finals - my daughter and I were admitted to the hospital, but now everything worked out, and at that time dad brought us new portions of assignments and studied the material himself and did it to the best of his ability.

The most striking discoveries for us were the following: our children are very early - all their crises begin ahead of schedule, what especially helped was the realization that everything was fine with my daughter, we just had a crisis at 3 years old and this is normal. Moreover, competent recommendations and practical, very vital techniques allow you to improve your interaction with children.

Secondly, I was pleasantly surprised that Tanechka deliberately involves her daddies in her work. After all, it is so important for everyone to try to understand situations together, and not to put everything on mothers and then blame them for not being able to understand and cope with their own children, as often happens.

Moreover, by working together, dads also take responsibility and begin to be more attentive to their children and wives :), and they also understand that raising children is not an easy job. For this point, a special THANK YOU to Tatyana.

We really liked that the training material was presented in understandable language, very real “living” examples were given, and not book fables or centuries-old examples. And there’s no need to talk about homework - they’re just very, very, very promoting!!! and although at first glance they are easy, their implementation leads to many realizations. Moreover, it was as if I had rediscovered my child - the months after the birth of my son were a real challenge for me and the tasks allowed me to become closer to my daughter and establish contact.

Of course, we cannot say that we have reached our goal and our child has become obedient. Now we don’t want “trained” children. We are now learning to hear them, understand them and speak the same language with them, and this is much more valuable to us.

It’s also very cool that the training covers all ages - so that we will go through it more than a dozen times, because our story with children is still at the very beginning :)
Of course, Tatiana deservedly gets an A from us! and one hundred points for quality feedback support.

So we are sure that after completing the training, our work has just begun - we set off on an amazing journey through the country of our little ones’ childhood and now we have a map that will make our trip successful :)
Thanks again. And I wish all present and future participants to become closer to your children and then the world around will change for the better :)

Tolmacheva Anna, daughter Masha, 2 years, 4 months. and son Ivan, 7 months.

“Already in the first fifteen minutes of the seminar, the state switches to clarity and awareness”

Hello Tatiana! Thank you for the deep, meaningful and interesting online seminars for parents. From the emotional stress and confusion that parents usually experience due to a child’s tantrums, you bring parents into a calm awareness of the nature of this natural and complex psychological phenomenon.

Already in the first fifteen minutes of the seminar, the state switches to clarity, awareness, and coverage of all key aspects of the problem. As a very important advantage of your seminars, I am pleased to note how organically you use your experience as the mother of daughter Anya.

I am sure that this makes your professional information especially valuable for parents and encourages them to listen and trust the psychological knowledge, which is presented very clearly and structuredly in your seminars. Most parents and grandparents really need this knowledge.

As the most significant, I highlight three messages from your lessons to parents: 1) tantrums are a natural part of the child’s maturation process, 2) parents can control the child’s condition, 3) many hysterics can be avoided if you build a pedagogical strategy correctly. I enjoyed participating in your online seminars. I wish you professional success and happiness to your family!

Sincerely, Olga Orlova,
psychologist-consultant, grandmother of two grandchildren, Riga

“My daughter’s behavior is changing for the better and doesn’t lead to tears:))”

The training was useful to me because... I found confirmation of my feelings towards the child (those around me, my husband and mother-in-law, constantly say that I need to be stricter with my daughter.

Now I am confident in my choice of parenting tactics and I see where they are wrong and their demands on the child are too high). I discuss parenting issues with my husband, but... I mostly had feelings, but he needed arguments, so I got arguments from the training to talk with my husband.

I began to be calmer about negative manifestations in my daughter’s behavior, to think about the underlying reasons (and not what lies on the surface) and her behavior changes for the better and does not lead to tears.

Victoria Solovyova

"My daughter was shocked "

Hello Tatiana.

It so happened that the training began at a very difficult time for our family. The crisis, as they say, is ripe. Therefore, I tried to attend all classes and follow your recommendations. It was not possible to unsubscribe about completing homework (there are technical reasons for this). There is a result.

When you start working on yourself, then everything around you begins to move. You just need to not relax and not be lazy - this is my main drawback :-). Once upon a time, after reading Kozlov’s books and working on myself, I managed to get rid of many complexes. Then, believing that I could do anything, I relaxed :-).

And so my daughter gave me some heat. The endless screams were simply driving me crazy. And the use of simple techniques brought results.

The realization that we run to the child when he starts screaming and do not pay attention to him when he plays quietly turned the situation on its head. I began to leave when my daughter became hysterical unnecessarily. She realized that there were no spectators and the show was pointless. We talked through situations with toys and found out that the boy was the only one in the kindergarten who was being offensive.

I'm starting to master the magic language :-). My daughter was shocked. The situation was slowed down a little by the presence of my grandmother, who does not live with us and came to stay. Anyuta immediately ran to her grandmother when she couldn’t get anything from me.

In principle, now, if my daughter is well-fed and has had enough sleep, then there are no problems with her. There is only one problem left - with dad - how to teach him not to teach me in front of the child. Thank you for the training. Let your experience help other families. Health to you and your loved ones. See you!

Elena

“You helped me learn to understand my feelings, to enjoy every minute spent with my daughter, and not to run headlong to wash the dishes or iron the clothes...”

My daughter Masha will soon turn 3 years old and, if before there were no problems with whims, she was a calm, obedient girl, now almost everything is wrong - tears, asks mom or dad for something - she immediately whines, hysterics also happened...

And I already thought that it would be nice to find more information on the Internet, study it properly and start acting.

But, fortunately, I came across Tatyana’s training, which I literally “swallowed” in a couple of hours.

This is not just a guide for young parents who are faced with the problem of children's whims! It’s immediately obvious that this is a work written with soul and love. To my surprise, I didn’t find any dry facts or hackneyed advice in the training. This work contains only interesting and vivid examples from life, the practice of a psychologist, the features of child psychology substantiated and written in easy language - now I understand why in specific situations my child behaves this way and not otherwise.

And, of course, the practical part of the training.

Learning to live without whims is quite simple. I was convinced of this by the example of my beloved daughter: now she not only does not constantly “whine” and throw hysterics, but she also happily helps me, she has become more independent: on Tatyana’s advice, we just play with her!

Of course, there are still problems with finishing soup or porridge on your own, but I think we will gradually get rid of them! And now I have no thoughts of spanking her on the butt for disobedience, and I explained to my husband that this is an extreme measure: now we have fewer tears and insults :), and more smiles, hugs, caresses and joyful exclamations!

It’s also great that this training is relevant for all parents - it doesn’t matter whether the child is one year old or already going to school - every mother and every father will find something interesting, something important for themselves.

I would also like to say about the last chapter about unconditional love. Thank you, Tanechka, for describing such obvious truths in simple and accessible language; honestly, it even brought tears to my eyes! :) You helped me learn to understand my feelings, to enjoy every minute spent with my daughter, and not to run headlong into washing dishes or ironing clothes. :)

The training “How to overcome the whims of a child” is an opportunity to prevent the occurrence of many difficulties in raising a child, as well as ways to solve the problems that we, young parents, face every day. On behalf of our family, I express my sincere gratitude to the author and her wonderful daughter, without whom, it seems to me, this wonderful training might not have appeared :)

Sincerely, Anna Pryakhina, daughter Mashenka, 2.9 years old.

“As a result, I had a clear picture in my head: what to do and how to behave.”

My baby is 1.5 years old, I can’t say that I’m closely faced with the problem of whims. So far we have practically not had them, but at the same time I understand very well that they cannot be avoided at an older age, and I don’t even know how to behave in this or that situation.

As a result, I had a clear picture in my head: what to do and how to behave. This training applies not only to the stated problem (the child’s whims) but also in general helps to develop your own style of parenting and relationships with the child in order to avoid mistakes that will be difficult to correct at an older age. Everything is presented very simply, clearly and intelligibly.

It was interesting to read about the characteristics of whims in children at different age periods; understand ourselves, our upbringing methods, what we transfer into our family from our parents’ family, and what we need from this; and receive specific recommendations on improving relationships with your child, and, accordingly, combating whims.

A very useful training, I learned a lot of new things, although I read books on the topic of raising a child. I think I will return to it more than once at different stages of my baby’s development.

My rating: 5 points :) Thanks again!

Olga Vesikko

“I liked the training so much, it’s very deep and affects not only children, but also parents!”

Hello Tatiana!
I like to understand my children, so I try to collect important information about relationships with them. This prompted me to purchase your training.

I can’t say that I have obedient children, but as stated in the training, there are no “obedient” children, and thank God, otherwise they would not develop and grow.

I love to see individuals in my children, but I also don’t want them to sit on my neck.
I liked the training so much, it’s very deep and affects not only children, but also parents! And this is natural, since the only way to raise harmonious children is to change yourself. If you, for example, do not know how to say “no,” then the child will either grow up to be aggressive and not accept objections, or he will take your model of behavior as his own and allow himself to be led through life by strangers.

I also liked the analysis of crises of each age: in the training it was structured and well presented. For the first time from your training, I heard about a special tactic of communicating with children, which helps to stop whims, playfully.

When you asked if there was anything else that needed to be added to the training, I honestly thought for a long time. I looked through a bunch of trainings that I also took on this topic, but I couldn’t find anything to add :).
My rating for the training is of course 5.

Sincerely, Vera Yashina

“Now I understand both myself and my daughter better”

I came to the training because I have heard more than once from mothers about the crises of two-year-olds, three-year-olds, etc. and the whims that accompany them, and decided to “meet them fully armed.”

I myself thought that my daughter was moderately capricious, and I always know what the reason for her whims is: it’s either lack of sleep or poor health. This helped me be sensitive to them. But still, sometimes I wondered: am I going in the right direction?

The training covered other possible causes of whims, as well as ways to respond effectively, and most importantly, the rules for preventing (“prevention”) of whims. It turns out that some were used unconsciously, and some were known in theory, but did not know how to apply them in practice.

Thanks to the training, I received both a clear theoretical picture and practical advice. I really liked the tasks aimed at understanding the style of parenting in the family and understanding the character of the child and expectations from him.

I would also like to say a few words about the format and content of the training: the text version was very useful to me, I think I will return to it more than once. I liked the accessibility of the presentation, the conciseness and conciseness of the material, the ability to immediately apply it in practice and receive feedback. In my opinion, the feedback was very important, due to the opportunity to ask specific questions and work through a specific situation. I liked that the theory was supported by specific examples and even phrases with response options. I also liked the list of topics covered.

I now better understand myself and my daughter, and also: what I want to achieve in our relationship with her and what kind of person I want to raise her (no, it’s not too early!). Well, of course, my “discoveries” made during the training and the set of tools that I received will help me with this.
Thank you.

Sincerely, Marina, daughter Lisa, 1 year 9 months.

“I saw a hundred mistakes and blunders in raising my son, I discovered so many “cockroaches” in myself...”

It was not at all by chance that I got to the training; the topic of whims in our age of crisis is number one. And I never regretted it, because... The information turned out to be very important and useful for me, and timely.

I learned a lot of new things, both theory and practice, many tricks, tricks and ways to extinguish a hysteria that has already begun, and how to prevent it from flaring up. I saw a hundred mistakes and mistakes in raising my son, I discovered so many “cockroaches” and complexes in myself that come from my childhood - but now I know how to deal with them! Although it is very difficult.

I can’t say that everything changed immediately, as if by magic - no, a lot of things are still not working out. But thanks to the training, I became calmer about whims (although it doesn’t always work out), I became calmer - and my child became calmer.

In general, I came to raise my son, and I’m raising myself first of all :), although I always knew that if a person, working on himself, changes, everything around him changes, but somehow I didn’t think about it in the context of upbringing.

In general, it seems to me that education is a creative and complex process, because... Children and families are all different, here you need to think, and understand your baby, and read something. Thanks to the training, I now know the right route, the direction in which to move.

I think along the way I will return to the training more than once, especially to the text version - thank you very much, Tatyana, for it.

I also liked the feedback - both your comments and the girls’ comments were very helpful (there are a lot of similar problems). During the training, some kind of internal composure, attitude, desire and strength to change everything appear. Now the main thing is not to lose this mood, not to relax and not to be lazy, not to go with the flow again and not to return again to shouting, urging, saying “no”, etc.

Thank you very much for the training, it was very interesting.

Semchenko Yulia, son Vasily, 3 years old, 8 months old.

"After completing the training, we speak the same language with the child"

With the birth of the second child, the question of whims became more acute, especially against the background of the manifestation of the age-related independence of the first child.

The training helped to gain confidence in actions that were intuitive, taking into account the psychotype of the parent and child and the situation.

Alternative methods for diagnosing the causes, preventing and relieving vagaries are proposed. Information is given for different ages. Tatyana’s comments on homework are very useful when the solution to the problem is not obvious to the parent.

The author of the training offers alternative solutions and points out the mistakes of parents. Often, parents simply do not have enough assessment of their actions by a professional to adequately assess their behavior towards their child.

I liked the large volume of topics discussed and the succinct content.
I would like to raise the topic of jealousy between children of different ages, since many children have the same age.

A systematic approach was useful. Now, if signs of whims arise, it is clear where the roots grow and how you can act so that the signs do not develop into whims.

This knowledge greatly helps to remain calm and avoid unsettling hysterics. After completing the training, we speak the same language with the child. Both the child and I became calmer and closer to each other.
Thank you Tatiana.

Ekaterina Brichkina, daughter 2 years old, 7 months old, son 2.5 months old.

“I needed the help of a qualified specialist, and that’s how I ended up at the training.”

We have three children with a small age difference and we are all at home (we don’t go to kindergarten) - this is, of course, wonderful, but it is also very difficult in terms of how to sort everything out so that everyone is happy. You’ve read enough literature on education, you seem to know what to do, but for some reason you do it differently. I needed the help of a qualified specialist, and that’s how I ended up at the training.

To be honest, I thought I couldn’t and wouldn’t have time to go through all the homework, well, at least once again I’d read the material that was suitable for our situation, but after starting from day 1 I couldn’t resist.

Firstly, a very pleasant voice, it immediately put my soul at ease and I wanted to listen and listen... Secondly, very briefly, but at the same time, maximum information on the topic and in an accessible form, and the material of each day is presented (for me it was important, since there is no extra time).

I liked the tests to determine the style of upbringing in the family and determine the character of the child. I understood that they were completely different for me, but for everything to fit so precisely according to the definition of character was very surprising.

I liked the feedback, so to speak, it polished the previously acquired knowledge to the end - thank you, Tatyana, very much!!!
The 4 steps of anti-anger and 13 ways to achieve child obedience were very useful.
Thank you very much for the training!!!

Gavura Svetlana,
daughters Sofia and Taisiya, 3 years 10 months, son Matvey, 1 year 3 months.

“I now know how to react and act on my own whims”

What brought me to this training was my daughter’s crisis. It wasn’t like that: I don’t want to go for a walk, I can’t drag you away from a walk. Sometimes she herself couldn’t understand what she wanted, she whined all the time or threw a tantrum for 30 minutes, not letting anyone near her. It was a nightmare!

At the family council, it was decided to contact Tatyana Egorova and undergo the training “How to overcome the whims of a child.” We couldn't have done it on our own.

What I liked about the training was the accessible information provided. Although you need to re-read it from time to time so as not to forget. But it became clear what was happening and why. The little man's feelings became clear. And at the same time, I now know how to react and act myself.

Now I set a timer for my daughter all the time to go for a walk, I talk in children’s language - it helps a lot.
And the most important task for me was to write a list of the child’s hobbies. I myself was amazed when my hand could not stop, but kept writing and writing. Previously, I seemed to know all this, but did not focus on it. And I also realized how much I love her!
Thank you Tatyana for opening our souls to love!

Zavolokina Yulia, daughter Liza, 1 year 11 months.

Participants in the “Iron Grit” training write:

“Information about the training came by chance, but very timely”

Information about the training came by chance, but very timely. I will also listen to the training on my tablet while walking with my baby on the street. My husband listened to it one day (2nd), he liked it, but fell asleep at the end))
I really liked the training and of course it is IMPORTANT that there is feedback. Otherwise, there would be less desire to do exercises. It’s good that there is an opportunity to “spy” a little on similar situations of other training participants. Supports that all living people and other parents have similar situations. I am happy when there are positive results after completing tasks!

The most important conclusion that I discovered during the training process. I want to raise not my son, or especially my husband)), but MYSELF! And I really, really like it, it inspires and inspires me. How important it is to love yourself, the WORLD, and people. How important it is to learn to reprogram your thoughts and beliefs. How IMPORTANT it is to remember your little girl inside and spoil her)).
I want to be my son not only a mother, but also a friend who helps and supports without instructions, shouting, or patterns of behavior. I believe - I can do it!)) I want to accept myself as I am and love anyone just like that)) I believe - I can do it!)) I want to love and accept my husband as he is, without critical comments or moralizing , internal patterns of behavior. I believe I can do it!))

Thank you for everything!
Thank you very much!

Christina. Son - Timur (9.5 months), Moscow.

“I tried to apply the techniques against the backdrop of dominant stress - in the end, it started to snowball!”

The training prompted me to take part - I am a very hot-tempered mother - melancholic and choleric, and then I worry very much about being scolded. I decided that if this didn’t help, then nothing would help - it helped, but not right away.
I really liked the training, but at the 3rd stage a regression arose - from that state of semi-calmness at that moment I again exploded for any reason. Thanks to Tatyana and gymnastics with the explanation of the psychotherapist, I understood why this happened - I tried to apply techniques against the backdrop of dominant stress - in the end, it started to snowball!) Thank you for helping me cope with this!
The result is that it is very difficult for me to cope with negativity - prolonged depression after childbirth affected me, my brain got used to working on the negative. BUT, I can handle it. There was a feeling of a plateau or an airbag underneath me (I mean my intolerance and incontinence - a pillow for my daughter)) It was difficult to understand and admit that the brain had consolidated the negative, and therefore I would have to work a lot :) I somehow wanted a magic pill :)) I can already eliminate 60% of my irritation, and I work on the rest every time, and each time it gets easier. Sometimes, it’s true, I slip back - but just the thought of it makes me panic - I immediately start writing homework on the situations :)

I am very pleased with the training!

Irina, daughter is 1 year and 9 months old. Kazakhstan.

“After self-regulation techniques, I became much calmer and I simply let go of many situations”

The training “came to hand” at the right moment, when the squabbling with the elder had already reached its limit, when she was tired of separating her husband and elder, and she herself had no strength left to sort it all out..

At first there were doubts that in just 7 days it was possible to change something. But progress is evident!) After the reprogramming technique, my brain started “slow motion” after each “confrontation” with Petya. After self-regulation techniques, I became much calmer and I simply let go of many situations. It was not easy to “meet” your baby, since everything was felt on a physical level, but it helped to remove some kind of internal block or clamp. Feedback from you has been and continues to be very helpful, Tatyana! Thank you very much for your support, I feel like I’m on the right track, but where I’m not sure, you’re very helpful with your advice and recommendations.
In addition, it’s nice that many of the exercises had to be done with my husband and he also began to change. Of course, it’s harder for men, after all, reason prevails over emotions, but the changes are visible, for a week now he hasn’t lashed out at the child as usual and listens to my advice on where and how best to act)

Tatyana, thank you very much for organizing this training in such a convenient format. All this time I went through it in text mode and everything was extremely clear and accessible! And the techniques given are not only effective, but also pleasant. That is, for example, sometimes you are too lazy to get up and do exercises, but here you really want to go and “fly”, feel the cosmic vibrations)))

Bryulina Valeria, sons Peter (3.9 years) and Pavel (1 year), Moscow,..

Let's take a little look into the future

Think about how much your baby’s spoiled nerves and whims cost you?

Nerve cells, as a rule, do not recover, and the child can quickly form a habit of whims.

What is your goal in raising him?

Raise him happy? Self-sufficient? Smart? Calm? Communicative? Purposeful? Healthy? To be wealthy and live without problems? Or just to be your support in old age?

How much does the likelihood of all of the above increase if your child learns calmness, balance and self-control from an early age from you?!

How valuable is it for you to OBTAIN and STRENGTHEN the skills of effective ways to reprogram yourself and your mental attitudes, to learn to control yourself and your emotional state for the benefit and as an example to your baby?

Just imagine how much strength and energy you can save by simply bypassing the “minefields” of anger and irritation...

Impressive, isn't it?

But you just need to know HOW and WHERE to do it... And get around it in practice...

Cost of participation in the training:

Participation in the training “Iron Grit: How to remain calm when children do not obey” costs only 6,900 rubles, depending on the participation option.

There are 2 formats of participation:“I myself”, “We are together”.

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Changing mental attitudes is a process that requires some time and will work provided that you carefully study all the training materials.

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And I will tell you what I do when I feel tired and irritated.

I now have two children - a daughter is 2.9 years old, a son is 8 months old. The daughter is gradually approaching the crisis of three years, and the son’s mood changes sharply. And for the last week the baby has been grinding out his upper teeth, sleeping poorly, yelling and not getting off his mother :)

This happens to absolutely all mothers. I don’t believe that somewhere there are ideal children who are never bothered by anything... Colic, teeth, some crises, developmental leaps... My daughter had colic, but her teeth came out unnoticed. For my son it’s the opposite. And someone is so “lucky” that the first, second, and third come at once. How to be?!

What to do when you can't bear it anymore?

• As I have often said, it is important to notice your fatigue at an early stage. Don't get to the point where you want to kill everyone. The sooner you start recovering, the better! Don't expect everything to resolve itself!
• Accept your fatigue and irritation. Tell yourself: “Yes, I yell at children. Yes, everything pisses me off! Yes, I'm tired, I don't have time to do anything. Yes, I can’t always be “on top” and constantly smile, like an ideal happy mother.” This stage is very important! It is vitally important to stop masking your feelings, stop pretending to be “eternally positive”, and not consider fatigue as something shameful and abnormal.
• Enable power saving mode. It is important to do this as early as possible. It doesn’t matter if your family’s menu is more limited for a few days. At the first signs of fatigue, I start cooking porridge (you can add raisins, nuts and cinnamon to the same oatmeal), pasta, buckwheat with vegetables... I also stop washing the floors every day (unless there is a real need for it). And I leave only the most minimal cleaning.
• If possible, do not hesitate to ask for help. It's not humiliating, it's normal. Let dads/grandmothers/girlfriends/nannies take a walk with the children. Or they will help in some other way. I usually ask my husband to take my eldest daughter for a walk. He goes with her to the park for 3-4 hours, and during this time I, with one of the younger ones, recover well. And if my daughter was taken somewhere for the whole day... By the evening I become completely kind.
• Enable energy filling mode. Make a list of things that relax you. This can be done even with children. I can watch movies for a while. Chat with friends. Do some exercise. Practice braiding. And of course, make the most of your free time! If the children have fallen asleep, do only what fills you as much as possible (!). And decide in advance what it will be.

What's the hardest thing here?

It would seem that everything is elementary. If you feel tired - rest! Then you will quickly become balanced, content and happy. Nothing can make you angry... After this, the child will become calm... But there are some obstacles:

1. Sometimes a woman cannot admit and accept her feelings. The excellent student syndrome comes out, you want to get a “second wind”, you want to fight to the end. And here it is very important to change your environment. If there are only successful, resilient mothers around us, we are ashamed to lag behind them and admit our weakness. For example, my mother is a strong woman. And when my first child was born, she involuntarily did not allow me to be tired. I thought that a baby was pure happiness, and it was impossible to get tired with just one baby. Of course, now I also understand that one baby is a resort. But if you just recently became a mother, learning to live a relaxed life with children is very difficult. As a rule, this skill comes with the birth of the second child. So, not accepting your feelings, rejecting your fatigue is very dangerous! And if you don’t have a sympathetic, wise friend, it makes sense to consult a psychologist.
2. Sometimes women don't know how to ask for help. They feel like everyone is rejecting them. Asking for help is an art, because it is important to do it gently, without making claims. But at the same time - decisively. Some mothers expect their husbands to offer help. But if you are already tired, you can no longer procrastinate. Be confident and gently ask your spouse to take your baby for a walk. Don't forget about gratitude!
3. A woman does not know how to rest. The most popular obstacle. They gave the child to the grandmother, but you yourself can’t help but feel nervous, scurrying from corner to corner, not finding a place for yourself... Sound familiar? And it seems like there is free time - two whole hours! But you either rush desperately to wash something, or force yourself into the bath... And you don’t get any pleasure. All thoughts are only about the child, about upcoming affairs or something similar... And now, the grandmother and baby are already on the doorstep, and you still haven’t noticed how pointlessly you wasted your precious time. I will write a separate article about how to learn to relax. This skill is very important. Thanks to him, in 15-20 minutes of children's sleep you will become calm as a boa constrictor. Great, isn't it? But all this comes only with practice... And through careful attention to yourself.

Raising children largely depends on how you feel. To be sensitive and restrained, sometimes it’s enough just to have a good rest. Today I tried to tell you how to become positive and calm by accepting your negative emotions and starting recovery. If the article was useful, click on the social media buttons and subscribe to blog updates. See you in touch!

In modern society, much attention is paid to the topic of proper upbringing, and psychologists are studying especially deeply the question of whether it is possible to shout at children. Despite calls for a democratic, respectful attitude towards children, adults shout at children at home, on the playground, and in the store. It’s good if such breakdowns are isolated. But quite often, yelling at children becomes the only “convincing” argument for parents. It doesn’t matter whether the baby really behaved badly, or whether the mother was simply in a bad mood - in any situation, screaming as an educational technique is unacceptable and even dangerous for the mental health of the baby.

How does screaming affect children's future?

• development of infantilism even in the most energetic children;
• suppression of emotions, which leads to the formation of fears, interferes with normal communication and the creation of healthy relationships with people;
• uncertainty, development, victim complex, accumulation of grievances, unwillingness to analyze one’s actions, to be responsible for one’s life;
• development of isolation, autism and other psychological disorders, especially in gifted children;
• a change in behavior, manifested either in constant confrontation, or in hypocrisy, attempts to please.

Raising a child begins with raising parents

1. Avoid irritating factors (stress at work, overwork).
2. Plan your time based on the rhythm of your child’s life. If you take into account in advance that the baby is slow to get ready, walks, and is constantly distracted by surrounding objects, then you will stop being late, and therefore stop being nervous.
3. As the baby grows, study the psychological and physical characteristics of his age. Then you will react more calmly to the whims of a three-year-old, or the scribbles in a first-grader’s notebook.
4. Treat your baby with respect, just like you would any other person. You don’t demand complete submission to your will from those around you, do you? So there is no need to scold the child for not following your orders.
5. If you are at home and ready to explode, imagine that people are looking at you. In society, as a rule, parents show more patience and behave more affectionately with their children.
6. Describe your emotions to your baby, tell him when you are angry, be angry with him and explain the reasons. This way he realizes his behavior faster than after screaming.
7. Don't forget what consequences your actions can lead to.

Parental fatigue, views on upbringing, and sometimes the child’s behavior lead to the fact that mom or dad often get irritated with the child, scream, and get angry. Of course, parents do not stop loving, but in fact children hear negative words addressed to them more often. Meanwhile, an atmosphere of calm and love is vital for a child to develop and grow up. Only by feeling parental acceptance and love can a child stand firmly on his feet and boldly walk through life. To create the necessary atmosphere for raising a child, parents often have to work on themselves first. It's hard work, but the rewards will exceed all expectations. If you are already on this path, the tips below will be very helpful.

1. Do not shift responsibility for your reactions and behavior onto your child. Sometimes, out of powerlessness, parents themselves take a childish position, shifting responsibility for their own actions onto the child: “Well, what should I do with you: spank you or put you in a corner?”, “Do you want me to scold you more?” A child cannot decide how his parents should raise him, punish him or act in a given situation. This is the task of adults.
2. Take responsibility for your actions. It is not the child who is angry and irritated, but you who are angry and irritated when he does something. Accepting responsibility for your reactions makes it possible to manage them, because it is impossible to change what you are not responsible for.
3. Analyze your behavior. In the process, you will be able to see the mechanism that triggers your reactions to the child’s actions and understand what actually throws you off balance.
4. Don't push yourself to the point of overwork. The resource of parental strength needs constant replenishment, so do not push yourself and your needs into the background. Sleep, proper nutrition, physical activity, hobbies and hobbies give positive emotions and fill you with strength for a calm upbringing.
5. Give up haste and rigid planning of life. Very often we get angry with children because they are too slow or disrupt our plans with their behavior. If you don't rush anywhere and let events just happen in your life, your problems will become much smaller.
6. Formulate your requirements correctly. It is very difficult for children to perceive the demands of adults, because they are formulated in “adult” language. Often adults formulate their demands in a “negative” way: “don’t meddle,” “don’t touch,” “don’t come near.” The child needs not so much prohibiting signals as specific instructions: “Take your hand away from the dog and come to mom.”
7. Learn to leave your problems outside the children's room. Children are great at reading the emotional state of adults. If you are “excited” and immersed in thoughts about problems at work, financial difficulties, conflicts with relatives, the child will definitely be “infected” by your nervousness and will behave accordingly. From birth, the rule has been unshakable: “A calm mother means a calm child.”
8. Do not demand from your child what you cannot do yourself. Agree, it is absurd to shout in rage at a crying child: “Calm down immediately!” If you yourself cannot cope with your emotions, a child, looking at you, will never learn to cope with his own.
9. By raising a child in love and tranquility, you do good not only for him, but also for yourself, “growing” a wise, calm, loving parent within yourself.
10. If you feel like your child is provoking you, stop and think: what does this little defenseless person really want right now? In most cases, behind provocative behavior is a desperate desire for attention and intimacy.
11. Control what and how you say to your children. Children need to express criticism correctly: firstly, these should be “I-statements”; secondly, it is not the child himself who needs to be criticized, but his specific actions. For example, instead of “You make me angry”, it is better to say “I get angry when you...”.
12. Be open to new experiences and knowledge. Not only do children learn from their parents, but parents can learn a lot from their children.
13. The best parental position is the position of authoritative care. This position requires strength, self-confidence and personal maturity. But it is from this position that education can occur without shouting and irritation. A child happens simply because you are an adult whom he trusts and whose authority he recognizes.
14. Do not hesitate to seek support from more experienced parents whose example is indicative for you, from specialists and books. Sometimes through books and conversations you can see your mistakes and draw conclusions.
15. Don't expect instant results from yourself. Working on yourself and developing new habits takes time. Celebrate every step towards your goal, praise yourself for the slightest success. If today you were angry and irritated with your child less than yesterday, that’s already good.
16. Don’t look for special reasons to tell your child about your love and be sure to maintain physical contact through hugs, touches, and kisses.
17. Believe in your child and his good intentions. It is inherent in nature that children always strive to be good for their parents, to please them, it’s just that a child is not always able to assess what is really appropriate and good, and what is not so good. Your task is to teach him this.
18. Shift the focus of your actions from “training” to your relationship with your child. Education is, first of all, reliable and close relationships, and not a system of prohibitions and punishments. If there are no problems in your relationship with your child, it is easy to raise him in love and peace, because he himself strives to be like you and obey.
19. Do not confuse love for a child with permissiveness. A child simply needs to know the boundaries of what is permitted; for him, these are points of support in the world around him and the basis of his life principles and guidelines.
20. When prohibiting something and limiting a child, do it from a position of authoritative care. If there are any rules, then in principle they must always be observed. Moreover, every time you need to explain to the child why you forbid him something: “I don’t want you to get sick,” “I want you to have healthy eyes.”
21. Allow your child to show any emotions and be in any mood, be sad, be capricious, cry. Accepting any behavior of a child, not just exemplary behavior, is the best confirmation of your love.
22. Let go of all expectations about your child and don't compare him to other children. A child deserves love simply because he exists, and not for his successes and achievements.
23. Always be on the child’s side, especially when someone else criticizes the child or lectures him. The situation when a mother or father, out of a desire to “please” a stranger, unites with him “against” the child and begins to shame or lecture him is very traumatic. The child perceives this as a betrayal, which greatly undermines trust in the relationship.
24. Don't be afraid to praise your child. For a long time in our culture it was believed that it is impossible to praise a child - it can be spoiled by it. In fact, words of praise for a child are a powerful motivation to become better and please their parents. Otherwise, what is the point of being good if no one notices his small victories? You can also encourage the desired behavior with praise, but then you need to praise correctly. Not an automatic “well done”, but explaining in detail to the child that you liked how he did something or behaved in some situation. How did I get rid of stretch marks after childbirth? I will be very glad if my method helps you too...

    Raising a child is a very difficult process. A child is raised not only by his parents, but also by the very environment that prevails in the house, other family members, kindergarten, and school. But it is parents who are the main people in a child’s life. Parental love makes him strong, resilient, able to achieve success and cope with any difficulties. Work on yourself, change unsuccessful parenting models to more effective ones, gain parental wisdom and raise your child in peace and love!