After a quarrel, a man says that he hates him. You loved him recently, but now you hate him? Psychology of relationships. Reasons why men hate women

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I love him. He said yesterday that he hates me. Is it possible to fix something?

Tziporah Haritan answers

Dear N.,

If you really love your husband and want to save your marriage with him, then you will have to take full responsibility for this on yourself. Since at this stage he is determined to break up.

What you can try (but it requires enormous patience) is to stop reminding him of the responsibilities of a married man, because... Now he doesn’t want to fulfill these duties towards you. Instead, try to give him more rights. Those. don’t call to find out when he will arrive, but if he returns at normal time, then serve dinner and ask how the day went, without any complaints. If he doesn’t want to answer, say: “I see that you’re tired” and leave him alone. If the hour is no longer “normal”, then don’t sit and get irritated, but leave dinner on the table with a note “Bon appetit, good night” and start the day the next morning without a scandal. Don't mention his parents to him at all - neither in a bad nor in a good context. I think a couple of months of this behavior will show him that you love him and are sincerely interested in a truce. Those. you don’t seek something from him for yourself, but take care of him. This behavior may make him change his ways and want to return to a normal relationship with you. If this does not help, then at least you will know that you, for your part, have done everything possible to restore peace in the family, but one person cannot bear the entire burden of family relationships if the other is in them not interested.

Of course, the examples that I gave in the letter are only individual examples that represent a general line of behavior in which you try to demand and defend your rights less and show more concern for your husband and take care of him. Such behavior will serve as proof of your love for him and will not be perceived by him as a desire to subjugate and use him, which he apparently feels now - since he says that he is not your property. Of course, the path I propose is incredibly difficult. But this is your only real chance to save your marriage.

With respect and good luck on this difficult path, Tzipora Haritan

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They say that from love to hate there is only one step. But not every person can really change their feelings towards someone so radically. However, such cases do occur, and most often among men. Why does this happen, why can a guy stop loving and immediately hate?

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Complexes

As you know, each person makes certain choices and experiences certain emotions, based on his experience and views. But an important role is played by the psychological state and mental balance. There are men who are very complex. They are ready to love, but not ready to endure difficulties and receive refusals. In such men, hatred flares up in cases of unrequited love. They can love and pursue a woman for a very long time, but after the realization of the impossibility of their dreams comes, love turns into hatred. In fact, such a person hates not the girl, but himself. It's just that he can't admit it. He begins to blame the woman for his experiences and personal difficulties, and cultivates hatred for her in order to somehow justify his failures. Such people are very weak in spirit. They never try to change anything. It is easier for them to hate someone than to find the disadvantages in themselves and try to turn them into advantages. Strange transformations occur with such people after they realize that they cannot achieve love. Gentle, sweet, ready for anything, they suddenly turn into cruel misogynists who are ready to tell every corner that their former beloved fallen woman is a fool and does not deserve the attention of others at all. In especially difficult cases, it is precisely such men who try to injure women and take revenge on them. You should always stay away from such people.

It didn't turn out as well as we would have liked. What to do? How to proceed?

Family problem

If people live together for some time, then it is not news that there is monotony in their lives. At first glance, everything is good and wonderful, but when you look more closely, you immediately notice that those feelings and that passion no longer exist. It’s as if they remained somewhere in a past life.

To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to periodically arrange some kind of “shake-up”. As a result, the relationship will be the same as before, and maybe even better.

In the same case, when neither spouse does anything, the feelings slowly disappear, and indifference comes in their place. But it should not be confused with hatred.

Please pay attention to any changes

If such a situation does happen in the family, then the woman perceives it much closer and more painfully. As soon as the wife notices some changes in her husband’s attitude, most often she continues to pretend that everything remains the same - she is desired and loved. And this can continue for some time. But the husband moves away more and more, and the wife simply closes her eyes and, deceiving herself, plays at the ideal marriage.

Under no circumstances should you do this. And all because after a certain period this game is no longer called a happy family, but a parody of it. And when there is complete inaction during this difficult period, the wife’s humility will not only not bring her husband’s feelings back, but, on the contrary, will alienate him even more.

If you don’t look at everything with rose-colored glasses, but pay attention to even minor changes in attitude, and at the same time analyze, then you can not only save your family, but also strengthen it. After all, when a spouse moves away, and his other half diligently tries not to notice this, it will not lead to anything good. At some point, it is safe to say that the husband hates his wife.

Factors

There are several factors that give signals that there is a crack in the relationship.

If at the beginning of their life together the spouses did everything together, the husband always listened to the opinion of his wife, then he begins to make decisions and eliminate problems, not only without consulting, but without even sharing this with her. This is the first sign that her opinion does not matter to him.

A woman should pay attention to whose interests come first for her husband. If it is him, then over time she will understand that she will no longer have the reliability and support that she had at the beginning of the relationship.

If nagging and reproaches begin, followed by irritation and indignation, then this is a sign that something needs to be changed, otherwise hatred may soon appear in your relationship.

If a husband does not respect his wife, but does not speak directly, but simply constantly criticizes her both as a woman, and as a mother, and as a housewife, you should also pay attention to this.

Particular importance can be attached to such a situation when spouses, being together, do not have common topics for conversation. And there’s nothing to say about laughing heartily at the simplest joke.

There is no need to ignore those moments when a husband does not want to just touch his wife. If this factor is ignored at the beginning, then after a while, when the spouse shows the slightest affection, she will receive nothing other than hostility and irritation in response.

It also doesn’t hurt to wonder why my loved one isn’t in a hurry to go home? It seems that everything was done for his convenience, but he would still rather meet with friends after work than come earlier.

The change in the husband's relationship with his wife is clearly noticeable when he begins to protect his personal space. At first, the woman turns a blind eye to this, always finding some kind of excuse, but rarely does anyone think about how it could all end.

The lack of sex, despite plausible excuses, must first push the woman to change something, otherwise the result can be disastrous.

You can often hear from a woman’s mouth: “My husband hates me and insults me, without thinking about how offended I am.” But few people think that perhaps she, through her actions, provokes a man to such an attitude.

Problem with ex-spouse

Even if a marriage breaks up, in many cases men are left with not just an unpleasant aftertaste, but disgust. When a representative of the fair sex says: “My ex-husband hates me, and I don’t understand why, what did I do?”

There are many explanations in such situations. After all, every family and relationship is individual.

You can consider this option when at first there is complete harmony and mutual understanding in the family, but some time passes and the wife, without feeling guilty and believing that she is right, is constantly dissatisfied with something, expresses not very pleasant things or commits unforgivable acts . The husband takes it all calmly and without scandals, trying to find a logical justification for everything. But it can't be like this for long. Inside, this negativity accumulates and accumulates, and in the end, he looks at his wife not with that loving and adoring gaze, but full of hatred.

And even after the divorce, the wife believes that she is the innocent “victim” who tried so hard. But as a result, only streams of hatred come from the ex-husband.

Another woman

There are also situations when the wife does everything possible and impossible for her husband to make him feel good and comfortable, but after a while he gets used to it and imagines that it’s like that everywhere. He begins to cheat, first secretly, and then openly, and a certain moment comes when he leaves the family.

A woman, so devoted and so caring, despite the moral pain he brought her, lets go with a pure soul and wishes him only happiness, but at the same time knows very well that even if he asks to come back, there will be no turning back.

A man who has lived with his new passion for a short period begins to understand what a treasure he has lost in the form of his ex-wife. But at the same time he believes that if he knocks back on the door, she will gladly take him back.

But when a wife refuses her ex-husband, he is first surprised by this turn of events, and then begins to get angry with her. Because he cannot morally accept that fact.

The woman, for her part, cannot understand the aggression and hatred that her former husband feels towards her. It seems like she let her go and didn’t mean any harm, but she refused to return... And she’s racking her brains over the question: “Why does my ex-husband hate me?”

The answer in this situation is very simple. He hates not his ex-wife, but himself, from the realization that she cannot forgive everything and not always, and human patience is not limitless.

When a turning point comes in family life, and a woman feels her husband’s dislike and hostility towards her, she immediately falls into a panic, asking the same question about what to do next and what to do at the moment.

Analyzing situations

In order to choose further tactics of behavior and not make things worse, you first need to analyze why this could happen.

The first thing that comes to mind is that the beloved has another woman. But what does this have to do with it if it seems that the husband hates his wife. When a man does not intend to leave the family, he often changes his mistresses, but it is not so easy for his significant other to notice this. Even if this happened, he had one answer - he wanted some kind of variety.

Perhaps the attitude has changed after the birth of the child, since, basically, the mother almost completely focuses on the baby. At this time, the spouse experiences a feeling of indignation and resentment that he is no longer given as much attention. Then he begins to attract him with aggression.

Having analyzed the current situation well and clearly, a woman must draw conclusions for herself and determine whether she wants to continue living with this person. Or the best option will be a divorce, after which not immediately, but gradually she will gain not only calmness and peace, but also self-confidence, which she so lacked in her family life.

But what should I do when a woman says that my husband hates me, but at the same time I love him and don’t want to lose him? You can try to somehow change the situation, putting a little effort and patience into it.

If, for example, a spouse works and does not have as much time for her family as she would like, and this is the reason for the spouse’s dissatisfaction, although he himself has a good salary, it is preferable for him that his wife sits at home and pays more attention to him than a career. Then, if you want to save your marriage, the only way out is to give up work.

Always be on top!

Often married women make the same mistake - they stop taking care of themselves (either they didn’t have time to wash their hair, or they didn’t have time to get a manicure), and this, in turn, pushes their husband away. Since he married an always well-groomed representative of the fair sex. To prevent this from happening, you must always remember this and do it in such a way that the spouse can not only admire, but also proudly demonstrate that this is his woman when someone else looks in her direction.

It is necessary to constantly develop spiritually and intellectually in order to always be not only a beautiful picture for your husband, but also an interesting interlocutor.

You need to try to make sure that your spouse spends his free time more often nearby, and at the same time he does not have the desire to go somewhere, for example, with friends for a beer.

You always need to find many reasons to praise your husband and say a gentle, kind word to him.

Very often in family life it happens that one of the partners does not know how to correctly express his thoughts. Then it is very difficult for the couple to negotiate and explain themselves. If a woman has such a deficiency, then she needs to express her thoughts more constructively, so that the husband understands what is being said and what exactly the wife wants to say, and is not left again thinking that once again something was left unsaid.

Often an offended spouse turns to specialists and declares: “My husband hates me.” Psychology is a subtle science. And experts in this field agreed that in such cases the most important thing is to objectively analyze family relationships and see future prospects for their continuation.

Mutual hatred

What should I do if my husband and I hate each other? The problem here is not that the feelings have become a little dull or a habit has appeared. From the very beginning of their family life, the couple did not have the emotional intimacy that lies behind love. And when the latter goes a little into the background, misunderstanding immediately appears. In this case, even the most insignificant little things lead to discontent and alienation between spouses, which accumulate more and more every day. As a result, everything that united the couple disappears.

When a woman tells her friends and family: “My husband hates me,” people give a wide variety of advice. Most believe that you should have an honest conversation with your loved one. But do this very carefully so that he does not refuse to discuss his feelings, and the attempt itself does not turn into another scandal. To do this, you need to express yourself judiciously and calmly. It is advisable to achieve this (possibly unpleasant) conversation. Then the result will be clear, the spouse will finally understand whether there is still any chance to save the family. Otherwise, you will have to come to terms with reality.

Everyone should be happy!

If a girl says: “My husband hates me.” What should she do? Now the time has come for the wife to remember that she is a woman and also has the right to personal happiness. Pointless conversations and wasted energy will not bring anything good, except for another disappointment and disappointment.

It is best to let go of your spouse rather than cling to him and keep him close. After all, the feeling that he needs his wife, and that she is desired as before, will never return. And so, left alone, sooner or later a woman will find complete peace of mind, perhaps she will have a desire to build a new relationship.

A spell to help make your relationship with your spouse better

What if your husband hates you? The conspiracy will help. It is this method of solving the problem that many women trust. To perform the ceremony you will need your own wedding ring and a long birch splinter. What to do next? The splinter is inserted into the ring so that there is an equal distance on both sides. Then the edges are set on fire, and a conspiracy is read over the smoke, the words of which are as follows:

"Don't burn, fire, don't fall

My wedding rings

My wedding rings.

Fell, and burn, and pain

Heart of God's servant (name),

His white chest, his lungs and liver,

So that he can't live and breathe,

Not a day, not a minute without me,

How he wants to drive me away,

He wants to hug me so much.

Burn, torch, go, smoke.

I send sadness to my friend,

Don't remove it, don't lime it.

As said, so done.

I lock it with a padlock and close it with a key.

Be, my words, for all ages

Not removed, not cursed, not crushed,

Not interrupted or sewn.

Key, lock, tongue.

Amen. Amen. Amen".

It is necessary to extinguish the fire only when the splinter on both sides burns down to the ring itself. After this, the remaining cinder must be placed in the husband’s pocket. You need to make sure it doesn't disappear. If this happens, then repeat the ritual again.

Another conspiracy

Besides the ritual described above, when a husband hates his wife, what else can you do? Create the appearance that the woman is listening very carefully to her husband, while she looks him straight in the eyes, and says in her mind:

"Like me, servant of God (name),

I don’t want and can’t live without arms and legs,

So don’t live without me (name).

From now on forever. Amen".

Go to church

When the husband said that he hates, the wife may need to pray to avoid succumbing to depression. So that the Lord gives her strength and patience to survive all this and not do anything stupid.

Sometimes some mistresses do everything to make the husband hate his wife. They can weave intrigues and trick a man. As a result, he really has such feelings for his legal wife.

There are women who do not believe in all sorts of magical conspiracies and rituals. What should they do? After your husband begins to hate, it is best to go to church and confess. Perhaps the priest will help restore faith in life and in yourself. It will push you to the fact that life is priceless, but short and you need to enjoy it, enjoy every day, and those family troubles are a test from God, which he sent, knowing that a person will cope with it.

Let go

If a woman says: “My husband hates me, living with him is becoming more and more difficult every day,” then perhaps the best way out of the situation is to let him go. After all, in the end, two people will not suffer themselves, and they will not force anyone to suffer next to them.

If a woman complains about life and says: “My husband hates me, family relationships are going nowhere, what should I do next?...” We must not forget that there is no specific answer to this question. And the decision to save the family or, on the contrary, not even try, must be made by the spouses themselves.

It’s not for nothing that there is such a proverb: “From love to hate there is one step” and vice versa. The likelihood that, having tried to save the marriage, the spouse will be able to interest her lover, as at the beginning of the relationship, and maybe more, is very high. Then married life will continue like a permanent honeymoon.

Conclusion

Now you know what to do for a woman who feels alienated by her husband. There are many options for solving this problem. You need to choose the most optimal one for yourself. Remember that a woman should always be loved!

Complexes

The fact is that such outbursts of hatred are a consequence of a lack of love in childhood, humiliation from peers, and so on. For such a person, everyone who does not love him is an enemy. While a guy is in love with a woman and is wooing her, deep down in his soul he believes that she also experiences reciprocal feelings, he just wants to see some confirmation of his love. But if this does not happen, the man becomes disappointed and the woman becomes his enemy. In addition, such men transfer all their losses and disappointments to others. If he did not achieve a woman, then this is not at all because of his weakness and lack of character, lack of prospects, bad habits and simply inability to behave as a man should. Of course not! He did not get his lady only because she is a young (elderly) idiot with chicken brains (too smart), inflated demands, and so on and so forth. So, if you are suddenly hated by your former admirer, who completely fits this description, instead of thinking and getting upset, just try to stay as far away from him as possible and in no case pay attention to the rumors that he may spread. Remember that By starting to react, you please his mutilated pride or once again confirm the fact that he is an ideal man, and you are an unworthy creature who is justifying himself, which means admitting his guilt.

Debunking the ideal

Of course, hatred can come not only because of complexes. Men may hate those women who for some reason could not or did not want to live up to their ideals. In every person's life there is a man or woman of his dreams. It’s just that over time we understand that ideal people do not exist and we try to love those who best suit our requirements, but at the same time remain individual. Unfortunately, some people don't want to realize this. Most likely, your ex-lover once created an ideal in his head. Then he met you and believed that you were the woman of his dreams. All this time he assured both himself and you of his love. But, unfortunately, he continued to love his ideal and tried with all his might not to notice that you were not him. And then, perhaps, some situation occurred, thanks to which the man still had to see the real situation, from which he was clearly not happy. It was after you destroyed his ideals, one might say, took away his dream, that the man hated you. In this situation, his psychology is completely understandable. Remember how angry you were at people who ruined your plans or prevented you from achieving your goal. In this situation, you have destroyed your ideal image in his eyes and the man does not want to acknowledge the fact that you have always been a different person. No, he will convince himself that the woman was simply lying to him all this time, pretending to be perfect.

The second option is that he will convince himself that you have changed, because he was too kind, sweet and good, but you did not notice this and turned into a bitch. In this case, there is no need to worry too much. Of course, it is painful and insulting when you are accused of somehow not being able to fit into the framework of an ideal woman who simply does not exist in this world. But nevertheless, it’s better to be glad that the man finally understood and stopped deceiving not only himself, but also you. After all, it is very difficult to live, realizing that, looking at you, a man loves someone completely unreal. And when you try to convey to him that he is imagining a completely different woman for himself, behaving completely inappropriately for the image he created, the man begins to come up with absolutely absurd excuses for your actions, but still does not want to believe in reality.

And if you offended him

And yet, a man’s hatred can be caused not only by his psychological problems. The cause could actually be a woman. Therefore, if your boyfriend has radically changed his attitude towards you, still think about your actions. And if you feel that you did something wrong, you don’t need to look for an excuse. Perhaps you treated him very dishonestly, betrayed him or cheated on him. Or, for example, they fell out of love, but continued to meet with him, thinking about someone else, or even cheating on him with someone else. In this case, there is nothing surprising in his behavior. You didn’t just hurt him, you insulted and humiliated his manhood, and this is the most important reason for male hatred. And if the situation turned out this way, then the best way out would be to ask for forgiveness and disappear from his life forever.

The relationship between spouses is very often ambiguous. Love coexists with irritation, and over time such emotions can develop into real hatred. Psychologists note that a man’s negative emotions towards his partner most often turn out to be a temporary phenomenon. And yet, the situation should not be left to chance, because the length of the marriage will depend on the wisdom of the woman and her desire to overcome the crisis.

Causes of hatred

Such a strong feeling as hatred cannot arise just like that. It always has serious prerequisites directly related to the relationship in a couple. So, why can a man hate the woman whom he himself chose as his life partner?

Psychologists emphasize that hatred does not arise just like that, and almost always a dark feeling is a consequence of long-standing grievances or childhood traumas. So, for example, if a man was abandoned by his mother as a child, he may experience secret anger towards all representatives of the fairer sex. Moreover, the person himself will not be fully aware of what his aggressiveness is connected with.

Problems in the family can come from the woman herself, and the man in such a situation acts only as a source of response. For example, if a woman is rude or indifferent, this can eventually develop into mutual hatred. If a lady constantly cheats on her husband, he is likely to react to this with anger and hatred.

Most often, spouses hate each other mutually. Often it is due to the fact that the decision to marry was made in a hurry and only resulted in quarrels. Such unions will not bring any good and often, according to psychologists, make the husband and wife mentally unstable and not ready for a new relationship.

How to define male hatred

Even though the hatred is almost always obvious, some ladies sometimes doubt whether men are really that negative. They feel that the relationship has changed, but cannot connect this with the collapse of the marriage.

Here are just a few signs that will help you identify male hatred in time:

Most often, negativity towards a partner is expressed in elementary aggressiveness, undisguised anger. Often men do not hesitate to use force; assault becomes quite normal for such a family.

Psychologists emphasize that in the absence of measures to save the relationship, the partner’s feelings will only progress. Over time, the man will throw tantrums every day, beat his partner, and take it out on the children.

It is important to understand that hatred can be not only obvious, but also hidden. A man raised with a standard set of values may be embarrassed by the sudden outbreak of negativity towards his partner. As a result, he will hide it by any means possible.

However, his behavior is still deformed. So, the partner will become silent, secretive and extremely irritable. Literally any comment from his partner will enrage him. In such a situation, you must immediately contact a psychologist or try to resolve the conflict yourself.

Ladies are accustomed to perceiving themselves as victims in such situations. However, psychologists advise looking at the problem from two sides. Usually both lovers are to blame for the conflict, and when this can be understood, the problem will disappear by itself. If you blame the hatred only on the man, the marriage will certainly fall apart and bury possible joint happiness under ruins.

Ways to deal with the problem

What to do if a husband hates his wife, and how can this be corrected? These are the questions asked by many women who are faced with a problem. The first advice that psychologists always give when working with married couples is to try to establish a dialogue.

It is very important to talk and not hush up the conflict. Some ladies believe that communicating with their lover will only worsen the situation and give rise to a new conflict. Yes, a man can really become furious at the fact that his secret hatred becomes an object of discussion. However, gradually the lover’s admonitions will have meaning and will result in the couple being able to make contact.

During the dialogue, it is worth finding out why the man’s attitude has changed. Perhaps he learned something extremely unpleasant about the woman, or maybe his feelings simply disappeared. One way or another, you should discuss the source of the conflict and try to eliminate it, because the happiness of both depends on it.

What other methods of overcoming hatred exist?

First you need to try to fix the problem on your own. If this fails, you can always contact a family psychologist. A specialist, with the help of special games and constant dialogue, will help determine the root cause of the conflict and eliminate it.

It is important to understand that relationships are not always saved. Sometimes the mutual hostility of spouses turns out to be so serious that only divorce helps to defuse the situation. If the lovers continue to live together, this will only strain the relationship.

Often a temporary break helps both the man and the woman realize how attached they are to each other. However, the break should not last more than a month, and during this entire period it is recommended to maintain verbal contact.

Psychologists advise arranging romantic surprises and going out together more often. Perhaps if a man is constantly reminded of happy days, his hatred will fade away and he will want to save the marriage.

Sometimes hatred arises because of a woman’s misdeeds, her infidelity. In such situations, you should not expect a lightning-fast resolution of the conflict. It almost always takes a man several months to cool down and begin to have feelings for his wife again. You should not rush him, but with all your actions it is recommended to prove your impeccable loyalty in the future.

When should you not fight for a relationship?

Psychologists emphasize that it is not always necessary to save relationships. Sometimes they are doomed from the very beginning, and the struggle for them only results in mutual suffering. In what cases should you not keep a man burning with hatred nearby?

There is a stereotype, established among people with conservative views, that partners should always, no matter what, maintain their marriage. In fact, this is not true. Sometimes the mutual hostility between them is so strong that the continuation of the relationship turns into nothing but misfortune.

Psychologists advise analyzing your emotions and talking with your partner. If lovers have nothing in common except mutual antipathy and several years lived together, the relationship needs to end.

You also need to pay attention to your partner’s behavior. If a man abuses alcohol and does not hesitate to beat a woman and children, then there is no need to fight for such a union. The fact is that such a partner is simply dangerous to others. He is unlikely to be able to change, which means that outbursts of anger will always accompany family life.

Another circumstance that destroys relationships is mutual betrayal. If a man has several mistresses, and a woman takes revenge on him or tolerates him, the marriage is unlikely to be happy. Mutual claims will continue to accumulate, resulting in a stream of more and more scandals. Such unions are doomed, because they lack mutual respect.

However, if a woman understands that she loves her partner and wants to spend the rest of her life with him, she needs to fight for the relationship. Psychologists emphasize that as long as feelings are alive, a couple has the opportunity to find happiness together.

Hatred of a man towards a woman and its consequences

It seems that everything is so simple: if a man hates a woman, you just need to get a divorce and the torment will end. In fact, such a painful experience has serious consequences for the future, and here are just a few of them:

Perhaps the main problem is the emergence of complexes and the inability to create a new family in the future. After such a bad experience, both the man and the woman will be wary of a new relationship. Their mutual hostility can result in long-term loneliness and prolonged depression.

If a couple has children, then their conflicts will definitely affect the younger members of the family. So the son can adopt his father’s manner of communicating with the opposite sex, which will give rise to conflicts in his personal life in the future. A girl, because of her father’s hatred of her mother, may begin to be afraid of men, which will result in an unhappy personal life for herself.

And, of course, constant friction affects the physical health of partners. As they get older, they may develop heart problems due to stress at home. That is why there is no point in delaying the resolution of the conflict, because the future of all family members depends on it.

Often, parental conflicts result in the fact that they do not have enough time for their children. The younger members of the family grow up on their own, deep down reproaching mom and dad. This only increases the degree of tension in the house.

Hatred between a man and a married woman occurs quite often. This could be a reaction to betrayal or a manifestation of a basic inability to build relationships. Often a representative of the stronger sex hates his beloved because he married her against his own will. This sometimes happens if a couple officially registered a relationship due to a sudden pregnancy or under the influence of fleeting passion.

Psychologists advise women to pay attention to the slightest changes in their partner’s behavior, to his irritability or, conversely, his mysterious silence. By identifying the problem in time, there will be a chance to eliminate it. However, sometimes marriage brings too much disappointment in the lives of both spouses and therefore it is not worth fighting for.

Elizaveta, Azov