How to tie a man to you forever. How to hold a girl and tie her to you How to tie a girl to you
Knowing how to attract a girl to you will increase your chances of becoming happy and not missing out on a partner that is truly suitable for you.
True, there is one BUT - in order to emotionally tie a girl to you, you will have to perform unusual actions. And sometimes you risk her in order to attract her.
Unfortunately, attachment has little in common with generally accepted standards of morality and behavior. Often you will have to do something you have never done before.
But it's worth it!
Be different or die!
Any of your attempts to charm a beauty will be weak until your personality begins to be traced in these attempts.
It would seem, how is the ability to tie a girl to you related to your behavior?
In fact, girls are tired of dating the same guys. Everyone meets the same way, calls the same way, starts the date the same way. They even talk the same.
What happens if you just start showing your personality?
If you have repeatedly noticed that your opinion often differs from the opinion of the majority, then do not remain silent about it. And don't pretend that you are the same as everyone else. Even if you are afraid to seem strange!
You won’t believe it, but every girl just dreams of meeting a guy who isn’t afraid to be himself.
- If you are talking to her about any topic, and you have your own opinion about it, then be sure to express it.
- Plus, when you present familiar things to her in a new light, she becomes very interested in spending time with you.
I myself have repeatedly had situations when a girl admitted that I always give her something valuable and teach her something new. And this is valuable - new views on the world.
Well, and, of course, your personality should be manifested not only in words, but also in behavior.
Listen to her preferences and do the opposite!
When you behave the way a girl wants, she becomes bored with you. In this case, you simply appear before her as another guy who dreams of getting into her panties. Moreover, when a guy adapts to a girl’s preferences, there is no sign of moral strength here.
But if you do the opposite, you will cling her too much.
Most females will do everything they can to make you seem good and correct. And sometimes they will even make you feel guilty.
On the other hand, when you behave as you please, true interest arises in her head.
Why do bad guys manage to quickly attract a girl to themselves? Because they never adapt to it. And if she tries to make them feel guilty, then they end the conversation altogether as punishment.
Don't be afraid to do the opposite! So, on the contrary, you will tie her to you even more strongly.
Make her earn your interest!
Never show that you are ready to spend all your free time on her. If she refuses your terms of time and place of meeting and offers her own, then refuse in return. It is better to say that by this time you are already, than to agree to her terms and observe a strong loss of interest.
Besides, don’t be afraid to show approval or disapproval of her actions and behavior- this way you will only show that you are used to evaluating girls and are not going to date her just because she is beautiful.
Over time, you will notice that she began to adapt to you and try to match your preferences.
A friend once said that you can easily tie a girl if you don’t call and stop calling. This will be a real shock for her. Of course, you shouldn’t act so cruelly. But there is some truth in this. If all your previous actions did not produce any results, you can try to suddenly cool off towards her until she sounds the alarm.
Comments (5) on “How to tie a girl to you?”
The girls are really weird. If you do as she wants, you quickly get bored, if you do as you see fit, she gets offended (About sending for no reason and stopping calling, mine is always fine with this and I don’t even respond to double calls, why is she offended???
I want to follow your advice, but I just don’t know, will I excite her and interest her, or will she be offended and leave her?
Egor, please advise me something, I’m afraid of losing her from such “tying” (((
Tie your beloved girl to you. Isn't it one of the main goals of many guys and men?
Most often this is caused by the fear of losing your “Lady of the Heart”. All sorts of attempts may fail, even to the point of pregnancy. I believe that there is nothing more effective than trust, support, love. We guys always imagine that a girl is constantly looking for ways to deceive, change or leave. Just think, it's a complete conspiracy, isn't it?
This is far from the case, and the more we try to keep a girl by forbidding her to do anything or forcing her to run after us, the closer and closer the moment of farewell is.
The conclusion is yours, but believe me, sometimes attempts to keep a girl turn into complete tyranny) Good luck to us, guys!!!
I'll probably try it. But in my opinion, originality and acting alone are not enough. It is necessary to delve into all of the girl’s somewhat significant hobbies and interests and, if possible, make them joint. In general, we should do everything together whenever possible. You need to penetrate her life so that during your long absence she feels empty.
But at the same time, she should feel that you can easily find a replacement for her, if anything happens.
The girl needs to be educated. She must know for sure that whims and bitchiness will lead nowhere. But in real situations, you must always stand up for her. But only in real ones. After all, girls are in many ways children).
Guys, read articles from smart people! When I was 17, I fell in love so much, it just blew my mind. For almost two years I ran after her like a dog, even to the same university where she entered, although biology did not interest me in any place. In short, I conquered it, achieved it!!! She was not a beauty, but she was charming, many people liked her very much, she often flirted... This infuriated me terribly. And I’m a simple guy, not a major, not a model. I was always afraid that she would find someone better and leave me. In short, I didn’t know how or what to tie her to; I’m not good at psychology. For some reason I decided that she needed to have a baby. I don't know what I was thinking. It worked the first time. So what's the result? Children were not part of her plans at that time, we were students... But she gave birth. She just got angry with me almost immediately, they swore constantly, she accused me of ruining her whole life... My daughter was not born yet, and we had already broken up... Only now I understand how stupid I was that I resorted to such extreme measures. If I had tied her to him in other ways, maybe we would be together now... But now... My daughter is 4, and I’m actively searching... Sorry, maybe not quite on topic, but I poured out my soul, and somehow it made me feel better
It often happens that relationships are in limbo, and your partner seems to love you, but at the same time, a certain chill creeps in that says otherwise. At this time, the question arises: how to tie a man to you so that he is only with you?
In this case, the recommendations may be the same for both girls and men.
Be yourself
Crowds of people walk around us, dressed the same, wearing the same make-up, with the same phones, with the same lives, in the end. A person who blindly imitates the crowd is unattractive to the opposite sex. Rather, he will be interested in him only for a few evenings, and for a long-term relationship they choose a person who has his own characteristics, character and principles. Therefore, if you love curling but can’t stand football, for the sake of your partner you shouldn’t keep it silent. On the contrary, you will show yourself to be principled and brave, and both guys and girls like this.
How to tie someone to you: give them personal space
It is important for people to have their own corner that even a loved one cannot penetrate. Give the person the opportunity to at least sometimes take a walk alone, go to the movies, or sit in the room at the computer. Never check your email, social networks or notebooks - this is your partner’s personal life, have respect. If a person sees that you respect your personal space, then this will be a huge plus for you at the time of making a difficult decision - to be with you or not.
Don't limit your communication with your friends
Many girls and boys are afraid to let a person go somewhere with the company of his close people. There is always a lurking fear that an ex-girlfriend/boyfriend might show up there, their memories will entice them, and everything will go wrong. Be sure that such a situation, firstly, will be the best test of the strength of feelings for you! After all, most often understanding comes through comparison, and even if the partner gets carried away by the conversation, he will control himself and know that the present is what is worth holding on to, and that relationship is already in the past. And secondly, such situations happen 1 time in a thousand and it is unlikely that real friends will allow this to happen.
Make it clear that you are not waiting for the person by sitting by the window
When we lose, we begin to appreciate - many people will confirm these words. At a distance, feelings become more intense, especially when you don’t know where the person is or what happened to him. Sneak out of the apartment for the evening, go to your parents, turn off your phone, after sending an SMS that everything is fine with you (or you never know, your partner will suddenly start calling morgues and hospitals). When a person feels a lack in his heart, he will definitely be visited by the thought that this is clearly love and that the relationship needs to be taken to a new level.
How to tie someone to you: share your experiences and secrets
Often, a partner cannot understand not only his feelings, but also your feelings for him. In order to make it clear that you trust a person as much as possible and make him stand out from everyone else, you need to tell him things that no one knows about. For example, your fears, misdeeds, mistakes, stories from childhood. Such conversations take place in a gentle, intimate atmosphere, always entailing tender hugs, confessions, kisses; it is at such moments that a person can understand that you are defenseless in your heart, a kind and vulnerable person, and you want to be protected from all adversity and problems .
Show off your brainpower
Go to your work together, take part in the Olympics, or try to play a high-intelligence game. An intelligent person (whether a guy or a girl) will always win more respect and admiration than one who is not distinguished by great intelligence and vocabulary. Plus, if your partner has a high position, then this can play into your hands, because you won’t be afraid to bring you to official receptions.
Gain respect from friends/girlfriends
When you are told from all sides not to miss your opportunity and to hold on to your chosen one with both hands, you are unlikely to be able to resist such heavy artillery. Friends will sort everything out, evaluate the pros and cons with a sober head, and analyze the prospects for the future coexistence of you and your partner. That is why it is worthwhile to please the closest circle of your chosen one.
You can do this in different ways, it all depends on whether you want girls or guys to like you. With girls, everything is simple: be courteous, remember everyone’s name, ask questions, have physical contact with your chosen one (hug, kiss on the cheek, hold her hand), defend your position, don’t skimp on money.
In order for a girl to please a male company, she needs to be stunning: it is necessary for your man to feel that he is envied. Keep the conversation going and don’t be afraid to speak up; it would be nice if you knew some men’s topics (fishing, cars, technology).
Follow these simple recommendations, and you will quickly see that the relationship will develop, or it is just a fleeting connection and you will not be able to emotionally attach such a person to yourself, in which case it is better not to continue such a relationship.
Video on the topic of the article
You can endlessly look at three things: fire, water, and how tenderly and lovingly an elderly couple who have lived for many decades treats each other. And how did they manage to carry their devotion over such long years? And how much wisdom does this woman need to have in order to tie her man to her forever?
And really, how is it possible - to be together like this forever? After all, it is impossible to live without quarrels and scandals, because spouses can get tired of each other, a man will definitely want to go to the left, and a woman is no exception in this matter.
Of course, it is impossible to guarantee 100% that such incidents will not happen. When tying a man to you, think that he is a living person, and not a lamb, so anything can happen. But it all depends on your correct behavior so that he loves you alone, without thinking about other women.
Several myths about the “peg” of a man
Indeed, there are several tricks on how to get a man to you in any way, even if he is married. What vile acts women sometimes do, and as a rule, they often make mistakes, because their cunning comes back to them like a boomerang.
Making a man fall in love through bed
By the way, a wonderful maneuver is to keep a man near you with the help of sex. It really works, especially at first. This is how most often treacherous ladies steal other people's husbands from their families. Most likely, his intimate fun with his wife has ceased to be so bright, but here is such a highlight! But, if you want to tie a man to you in this way, then here are some tips for you:
Never try to take away a married man in this way: if he is led to bed, then most likely in everyday life with him, another woman will also take him away.
I managed to make a man fall in love with me through sex - “keep up the brand” always. Moreover, agree to bold new experiments. Well, of course, within reasonable limits, which is considered the norm for two lovers.
No “headaches” and “I won’t give you punishment”! If he loves sex so much, he will find a reliable woman with a healthy head on his side.
Hold with magic
This is absolutely female stupidity and throwing away “grandmothers” to the grandmother-witches. Sometimes this number actually works. But this is rather purely psychological. For example, this can be explained this way: a woman has a great feeling for her beloved, who does not pay any attention to her, even though such “running around” after him flatters him. She calls him and doesn’t leave him alone, and finally, having “bewitched” him, she calms down that now he’s not going anywhere. And the man is already beginning to be bothered by such sharp indifference: they are no longer trying to hold him back, and he himself will want to get closer to his fan. And only then does His Majesty come to the rescue - sex.
But “miracles” sometimes happen, and thus a man really “dries up.” That's why they say around - she bewitched and took a fart. And then the man begins to throw:
He wants to regain his freedom, but for some reason he cannot make a choice.
He begins to hate himself for his insecurity and his bewitching woman for the fact that she even exists.
Scandals arise on this basis, and accordingly the man begins to have health problems. That's why this ritual is called - dried.
Put under the heel
Let’s say everything turned out very easily - it worked with sex, and with a love spell, and, like a “test in the head” - to make a henpecked man out of your favorite one. Well, so that it becomes yours for the rest of your life. There are whims on your part, demands, orders. What this can give in the future:
You yourself will stop respecting him: what kind of guy is this who instantly runs on your order: “Fas!” You will quickly get bored with him, and 100 percent you will look at other interesting men.
Because of your whims, he himself may look to the left to relax after the heavy burden of married life. Or he will become completely lazy. Because you are the one who makes all the difficult decisions, and he doesn’t even need to think about anything. So, just carry out small tasks. You will have neither a “stone wall” nor a “reliable shoulder”.
The main means of attachment is friendship
Yes, first of all, this is true friendship. What is the most important thing about this feeling? That's right - trust and respect. And if this does not happen from the very beginning, then making up for it over the years will not be easy and almost impossible. Well, as in the joke:
After numerous quarrels and hysterics of the wife during many years of marriage, she suddenly told her husband that she wanted to become his friend. “Oh, friend!” - the husband is surprised. The husband takes out a bottle of vodka, puts two glasses on the table, fills them, sits down in front of his missus and says: “Listen, you can’t imagine how sick of this wife of mine already is!”
Folk joke
So, in order to truly keep a man, from the first day you must sincerely respect him and trust him as yourself. Then he will begin to trust you in return. And this is all besides love.
Friends always have common interests. If they do not coincide, then friendship is a stretch. For example, a woman is annoyed by her beloved man’s fishing, and a man is annoyed by her spending many hours at the computer digging a virtual “vegetable garden.” Interest does not coincide - everything leads to disintegration. This does not mean that a woman should force herself on weekly hikes, she just needs to initially think about whether she is on the right path in life with this man, and is it worth keeping him?
And there must be unconditional trust from the very beginning. If you go through his phone, it means you're not sure about the guy. Does a man make a nest egg from you? It means he's not sure about you. Friendship cannot be with secrets from each other. And no relatives or friends can be higher than your trusting relationship. If you are the one gossiping with him, whispering about the tricks of others, and not vice versa, then you are on the same wavelength. Men really value friendship in the family, and therefore they themselves are happy to become attached to such a spouse-friend.
Just don’t think that tediousness will start now, like “Be perfect in everything - keep the house super clean, and feed your beloved man to the fullest” and so on... No, it’s boring, although housekeeping is a wonderful trait of a woman. But does a man always need this sparkling idyll in a house with the smell of pies? Here are a few tips and rules for you to note if you really want to tie your lover to you:
If he’s a pedant and a neat guy, beware, you won’t get away with easy cleaning. Everything should always sparkle and smell fresh and clean. He will notice everything - at what distance the shoes are placed in the hallway, how the towels hang, and even how the handkerchiefs are folded in the chest of drawers. He won’t miss even a speck of dust, as he is a top-class visual artist. Living with this is torture.
If you are unpretentious in cleanliness, then don’t worry too much about it, even if you’re a neat guy. Sometimes the wife’s excessive housekeeping is annoying, as they say - there’s no place to spit. And not all men like that their wife pays more attention to the housework than to him.
And now as for cooking. Everyone knows the truth that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, in any case, this is one of all ways. But there are rules here too:
Never overfeed him with special delicacies on weekdays: let these delights only be on weekends and holidays. Otherwise they will lose their “zest”.
Learn to cook his most favorite dishes perfectly. So that he can compare them with others, cooked by other people’s housewives, and think: “And mine cooks better than anyone else!”
There is no need to “pull the blanket over yourself” when you go on a diet and prepare food for two according to your diet. Like, it’s useful, and it won’t hurt you, dear. No, if a man doesn’t want this, then when he leaves the house he will buy himself a hot dog, and your “wholesome and healthy” food will be disgusting to him.
His family and friends
Remember, dear, for a man, his friends and family are what he really values. But this does not mean that in front of them you should turn into a humble lamb. Under no circumstances, otherwise they will kill you. You have to be wiser here.
Relationships with relatives of the beloved man
It is very important for any mother that her son is taken care of if she entrusts him to her daughter-in-law. Therefore, never argue with her, if she advises something - just listen and agree. Once you are alone with your lover, you will decide for yourself whether to follow her rules or not, but appearing affectionate and obedient to your mother-in-law is not difficult.
Parents are different. Poking their noses into everything they don’t need to know, evil, kind, indifferent, drinking. But for a man, his parents mean a lot. Even if sometimes he himself speaks poorly of them. This may be out of shame for them or from temporary irritation. Be wiser, praise them in front of him, and remind him that they are his parents and they are still good. In his eyes, it is you who will win, even if you have a common conflict with your parents.
In general, a friendly, cheerful and affectionate daughter-in-law is a real gift for a man’s family. There are many cases in life when it is daughters-in-law who provoke a conflict due to their youth and stupidity, and put their spouse between two fires. Therefore, show who you really are from the first day you meet. If you are arrogant and pretentious, then it’s better not to even try to attach a guy to you. Most often, in conflicts with a stupid daughter-in-law, relatives win.
Fragment from the film “If your mother-in-law is a monster”
arrow_left Fragment from the film “If your mother-in-law is a monster”
Relationships with his friends
Unlike relatives, they still choose friends. Do you remember how it was mentioned above how important it is to become a man’s best friend and truly share common interests with him? This is how one must “get along” with his friends and earn their respect, so as not to be a stranger among his own. If you start to interfere with their friendship from the very beginning, there can be no talk of any “attachment”. What to do for this:
Always be hospitable and friendly. If it is not possible to receive random guests right now, because you and your lover have your own plans, let him be the one to tell his friends about it.
Share common parties. In nature - pack a table for a picnic or shout with them “Go-o-ol!” while watching football in general, twirling a scarf above your head.
Don’t look like “Madame Rastrepe,” that is, sloppy and unkempt. It is your husband who can see you in different ways, for example in the morning - without makeup and without hairstyle, dressed in a dressing gown. But he doesn’t do this in front of his friends.
Praise him in front of your friends. And not a drop of criticism - only everything good about him.
Everything is very simple. But following these rules, your man will be proud of you. And friends are absolutely jealous. And the well-deserved respect from them will be in your favor - with such a wife, his friends will not drag your lover to “break away” into the sauna with dubious women. And among them you will be “your guy.”
In general, the saying “My tongue is my enemy” is very accurate. Every word spoken can turn against you. And intonation matters a lot. Of course, it is difficult to constantly control yourself, especially in the heat of emotions. But if you take into account some rules, it will be much easier to keep a man next to you for a long time.
When you have a disagreement with him, never yell. A screaming woman is an ugly sight with a face distorted with anger. Moreover, by shouting and interrupting, you can do something like this! Insult, say too much, get into trouble yourself. Don't interrupt him if he says something. And at the end just say: “Darling, now let’s calm down.”
Men love praise more than women. There is no need for absurd admiration, what is needed is praise for some specific actions. Thanks to this, your lover begins to feel like a hero, and you - a defenseless woman, whom only he can protect, like no one else.
Never talk bad things about your boyfriend to others, even if he is not around. Just praise all his virtues. Those women who call their men goats are stupid. The conclusion immediately suggests itself that they themselves are goats. So, be taller than these herbivores.
Know how to ask him for forgiveness if you are wrong. You don’t have to hide behind the fact that you are a woman and everything is allowed to you. No! We have equal rights, and please notice your mistakes too. And please, less tears - many men cannot stand this.
We are responsible for those we have tamed
In general, these are all tips on how you can tie a man without losing your dignity and earning respect from those around him. But! These tips are only for those who, with sincere love, without selfish goals, want to keep him close to them.
Many things happen in life, sometimes tragic. Just imagine if an accident happens to him: he gets into an accident, or some kind of illness befalls him. He will be bedridden or wheelchair bound for a long time. Will not be able to speak or move. Can you stay with him forever if there is no one else to help him? Won't you throw him out of your life like a mongrel puppy?
Therefore, think carefully - are you worthy of this man? Won't you ruin his life with your behavior? After all, having become attached to someone and loving with all their heart, every person places great hopes on their beloved. And betrayal is a terrible thing.
Finally - an unusual technique
Let's do a thought experiment.
Imagine that you have the superpower to “read” men. It’s like Sherlock Holmes: you look at a man and you immediately know everything about him and understand what’s on his mind. You could get any man and have an ideal relationship, and you would hardly be reading this article now in search of a solution to your problem.
And who said that this is impossible? Of course, you can’t read other people’s thoughts, but otherwise there is no magic here - only psychology.
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You need to make sure that the woman cannot imagine her life without you. And this is actually not a difficult task. After all, women are emotional creatures. And all you need is to give her emotions in abundance, and ones that she can’t get anywhere else and from anyone.
Gifts evoke emotions in women. And not necessarily expensive. On the contrary, you shouldn’t give expensive gifts, especially often. Otherwise, it will become the norm, become a habit and will no longer cause such a storm of emotions. Your gifts should be for a reason and rarely - like surprises - without a reason. For example, you can buy her a box of chocolates and say: “This is for you in honor of the sweetest day of the week - Sunday.” Women really like such cute signs of attention, coupled with jokes.
You must learn to stand out from the crowd, be creative and unusual. If you can, write poetry. And even if you don’t know how, write too. Just try it. At the very least, you will both laugh and again give her positive emotions.
But the emotions that a woman will receive from you should be not only positive, but also negative. Yes, no matter how strange it may sound, you will have to show masculine qualities in your relationship with your beloved - toughness, inflexibility. After all, relationships are not all honey and raspberries; sometimes you will quarrel. And so that she doesn’t sit on your neck, you should learn to say “no” when necessary.
To warm up her feelings, sometimes leave her life. But not for long. Two or three days on a business trip will make her bored. Just don’t chat on the phone with her, don’t write SMS. Let him miss you as much as he should.
Most of all, women value sincerity. Show that you trust her with all your secrets. Tell us something touching from your childhood. Just kidding. Humor brings people together very much. And also be confident in yourself, because women value male strength more than anything else in the world. Subconsciously, they feel that you can protect her, feed her and provide healthy offspring. Therefore, male confidence and personal strength, including charisma, are the main qualities of a dream man.
Hello, dear readers of my blog! Not all women are willing to show their feelings. Not all of them see the real emotions of a man, and therefore many questions arise.
If you are in love and are thinking about how to tie a girl to you, psychology will give you some simple but very effective advice. True, it is necessary to remember that each of us is responsible for those whom we tame. Before using tips and practices, I would advise you to think several times.
Perhaps you should just show your true face, do everything to make a woman love you, and not the image that you are going to use?
Refusal of negativity
To bind the person you love, you need to try and change your usual behavior a little. The first thing you need to do is give up all negativity. Bad weather, bad neighbors, idiotic boss - you should leave discussions of all these points for your friends. A girl shouldn't know that something can go wrong in your world. You are the ideal person to whom only positive stories happen.
Every person subconsciously strives for. Achieving it is not so difficult if you control your feelings. Not everyone can do this on their own, and this is your advantage. We are left alone with ourselves and begin. If you manage to distract a woman and surround her with favorable emotions, half the job is done.
What methods should I use? Positive emotions can be evoked in many ways, even. To do this, you don’t need to spend a lot of money, constantly abuse your imagination and strain yourself.
If you have interesting stories about travel and distant countries in your arsenal, tell them more often. Use imagery. When we see a kitten, we start smiling. You can take your puppy on one of the walks, but if you can’t do this, just tell us. Colorfully describe children's pranks, animal pranks, stories about how your father looked after your mother.
Gradually tie her down with the simplest positive images. The more of them in your arsenal, the better. A woman will definitely want to meet again with a man who knows how to cheer her up and surround her with warmth, care and joy.
And you will learn a lot more about yourself, your girlfriend and methods that will help your relationship.
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