How to bring a woman to ecstasy by stroking. How to quickly bring a woman to orgasm? Ways. How to understand that everything went well and the girl was able to cum and reach the pinnacle of pleasure
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How to make a girl orgasm
Perhaps every man in his life wants to be on top with the fairer sex, because this is how you can prove to yourself that you are the best! And this is one of the coolest feelings a man can experience. At the moment when the girl squirms under you, you feel that you have made her, now she will not run away from you anywhere, you have become a real mania for her! And this is something incredible.
However, it is not always possible to achieve an orgasm from a girl from the very first meetings. Sometimes the problem lies in the field of psychology, and sometimes there is simply not enough strength and endurance to bring the matter to a victorious conclusion. Is this a problem? - Naturally. Is there any way to deal with this? - It’s not possible, but it’s necessary! And in this article we will reveal all the secrets of female sexual desire.
Remember that you will need to put in a lot of effort to bring the girl to orgasm, but without any doubt it will be worth it! You want the girl to want sex herself in the future and try to ride you at every opportunity? That's right, we all want it!
Why can't a girl have an orgasm?
Emotional block. We have not yet seen a single girl whose parents explained that sex is cool and healthy. For many girls, this area of activity remains a real mystery, and they leave all manipulations with their bodies to the will of a man. How can they want to have an orgasm when many of them experience real shame and shame when they expose themselves in front of their boyfriend. In reality, many girls just want it all to end as quickly as possible, and for their lustful boyfriend to finally calm down. Will there be an orgasm in this case? No!
Love, sympathy and desires. Unlike guys, who can simply show their breasts or touch their butts to get ready, girls’ readiness comes more in their heads. If a girl loves a guy, if she really likes him, and sex with him is desirable, and not just a necessity in a relationship, then the girl is ready. But if she is tormented by doubts, and sex is blackmail on the part of the guy, then we cannot talk about any readiness, and the girl will definitely not be in the mood to have fun.
Atmosphere and setting. Few girls like to have sex in awkward conditions or in a hurry. Girls demand a high quality place, and, to put it simply, an opportunity to take their time and relax. You'll be at least twice as likely to make a girl orgasm in a big bed after a champagne dinner than on a dirty sheet in a cold garage. Although, sometimes you come across connoisseurs of the unusual.
Weak personality of a man. If you look at the animal world, as well as at the idea of tough men, you will notice a simple thing: girls do not like to obey guys, but they love to be dominated. Therefore, if you ingratiatingly ask a girl about her favorite position, whether she feels good or something like that, then you will look insecure and weak! No female wants to have sex with a weak man!
Physical characteristics of a man. Even with a long hose, there can be problems when watering the lawn if the gardener is lazy and does not want to work. Therefore, if a couple of minutes from above is the limit of all possibilities, then you need to think about the gym, and not about women’s charms. Obvious and unfortunate.
How to prepare a girl for orgasm
Trust and understanding. Only when a girl trusts her man will she be ready to accept his invitation and go into the world of love, sex and pleasure. Otherwise, she will experience suspicion and caution with every action on the part of a man: the main emotional blocks.
For this reason, it is necessary to develop trust in a girl, which lies more in the area of building relationships than issues of sex. The girl, at a minimum, must be sure that she will not be abandoned after sex, and the guy really has some plans for her.
Relaxation and romance. Unlike men, many girls spend significant time preparing for sex. For this reason, they so appreciate the moments when a man allows them to be special and meaningful. Calm atmosphere, sincere understanding and warmth, light flirtation and an atmosphere of mystery. All this allows the girl to reveal her strengths and be appreciated. This relaxes them physically and turns them on emotionally.
Concentration. Once a woman is emotionally turned on and in the mood for sex, she wants to fully enjoy this moment. Any extraneous actions, sounds or events will not only distract you from the main task, but can also ruin the girl’s entire mood. Therefore, when you see the girl agreeing to continue, you will need to focus solely on the girl and nothing else! There is no need to talk and be shy, you need to do it!
foreplay
Subsequence. A woman can be compared to a musical instrument that needs to be tuned for a long time and carefully, but then it will sound beautiful for a long time. In the case of girls, many guys try to play the instrument when it is not yet tuned, and it sounds terrible and false. And it often happens that by the time the guy has finished, the girl is just starting to want it.
It is necessary to start caressing the girl carefully and carefully. Light movements along the hips and waist, always from bottom to top, and not from top to bottom. Kisses on the lips, cheeks, neck and ears. They must be careful, caring, but at the same time quite persistent. A girl should feel the hands of a caring but confident master.
Offensive. After kisses and soothing movements, the attack must be continued by touching the girl’s naked body, gradually loosening her locks, exposing her to you. Every item you take off should follow the confidence you exude. This is the only way she won’t feel defenseless.
Pleasure. You don’t need to immediately get into the girl’s panties; you need to consolidate the progress achieved with additional caresses, where you show the girl your admiration for her naked (or almost naked body). This turns many girls on even more.
Complete excitement. Only when her thighs begin to tremble slightly, her breathing becomes rapid, her panties become wet, and she no longer instinctively tries to close her thighs, is it time to bring in the big guns.
Clitoral stimulation
Many girls get really shy when a guy tries to move down their stomach. They either begin to protest and squirm, or take the pose of a soulless log: they create an emotional block for themselves, and then just lie there and wait for the guy to get tired of this matter. For this reason, it is necessary to emotionally prepare the girl for this important event in her life.
Gradual advance. Nobody likes to wait, so you need to go down from your stomach and stop a little at this place so that the girl is already looking forward to when you finally go lower. She will want it herself!
You do it easily and confidently. If you exude confidence, if you show the girl that this is cool and cool, she will be able to relax and trust you. You will need to behave this way, even if you yourself have no idea what to do. Your fear should not be transferred to the girl!
Technique. There are many different methods and schemes that are advised by various professionals and gurus, but almost always it all comes down to feedback from the girl.
If your actions make a girl clench her thighs and move away: you're doing it all wrong.
If a girl lies and does nothing: your actions do not bring any results, you need to change the method of influence.
If a girl opens her legs and starts poking your nose with her nose (raises her pelvis and points it towards you): you are doing everything right, continue!
Penetration
According to statistics, achieving orgasm through clitoral stimulation is much easier than through penetration. There is also data that states that approximately half of all women are physiologically unable to experience orgasm through partner penetration.
For this reason, it is necessary not only to prepare the girl for emotional and physical intimacy, but also to conduct some reconnaissance in force. Different positions involve different areas inside the girl's vagina, you need to pay attention to which position the girl best begins to feel your movements.
Indicators of a girl's pleasure:
Rolling and closing eyes. The girl seems to be entering a trance state.
Rapid breathing and amplitude movements of the diaphragm. Movements should be periodic, not one-time. If the movements are sudden and one-time, then this is not pleasure, but pain.
Clenching your hands into fists or grabbing you. The girl either unconsciously clenches her hands into fists so that she even draws blood with her nails. Or the girl grabs you very tightly.
Approximation. When a girl feels good, she instinctively begins to approach the source of her pleasure, and in this case, you. Also, sometimes you can recognize some fidgeting in the rear seat.
After sex
Guys make a mistake when, immediately after sex, they get out of bed with the air of a winner and go into the shower to wash their privates. In turn, absolutely all girls want to enjoy the moment of intimacy and unity with their man. Therefore, for the sake of decency, it would be nice to hug the girl and lie with her for a while (5 minutes), and only then go to the shower.
This guy's behavior will make the girl feel needed, and not just used. And this will be very useful for further lovemaking.
This means that in order to get an orgasm, a woman needs (who would have thought?!) to get aroused. And - before the act. We don’t reach below the waist with our hands, we don’t grab the chest. At first. Initially, we assume that the girl is sexually inclined. I especially recommend dealing with a cleanly washed girl - it’s more pleasant to kiss her, and she’s calmer that she’s clean. Many people have a complex about this.
If you’ve known each other for a long time, you can immediately press your erect penis against her, she’ll like it. You can tell her what you are going to do, in detail... A hot whisper in her ear, kisses on his neck and act as you describe. I recommend that you linger on the kisses of the neck and ears, and change the position as quickly as possible to a lying one - it’s more comfortable this way. Just don’t dump her right away if you doubt what she wants.
Be sure to kiss the neck and ears. You suck the earlobes lightly, you can bite them, but not too much. With your tongue you caress the ear from the inside, with its tip you penetrate the hole, gently breathe into the ear, whisper the words very well, the lady’s name, then again move on to the lips, hands caress the neck, ears, lips again the neck - you see that she is already aroused, you begin to kiss the neck stronger, you hide your teeth behind your lips, you bite her neck like this, you can already gnaw her ears with your teeth, but be careful, don’t forget about the whisper, and caress with the tip of your tongue...
Sometimes there is a sensitive area on the back of the head, but I’ve only encountered it a couple of times... Try it, maybe it will happen. Gently stroke her with your fingers at first, then harder. Also, press her chest with your chest - they are sensitive to pressure. Don’t grab it with your hands - let her get so excited that she asks for it or clearly shows it. If he presses his hips against you - let him. But don’t rush, she snuggled, press her tighter and nothing more. Continue kissing, in this state, don’t think about your lips anymore, switch completely to your neck (!) and ears, your breathing is stronger, hotter, but don’t act like an animal. It's too early. When the lady starts pressing harder and harder, you can put your hands on both her chest and her butt... Depending on how she presses harder...
Here it is now:
Breasts - be sure to find out if she likes her caresses. If not, even
don't think about it. Be careful with your nipples, don’t squeeze your breasts too much
at first, only if she asks, or you see for yourself that she enjoys it.
We stroke the breast counterclockwise, with our fingers, but don’t grab it with the whole palm. You start from the edges of the chest with your fingers and, having made a semicircle, move to the nipples - stroke the nipple with your fingertips, then, as it were, push the nipples inside your spread fingers, and grab the nipples.
So, also - all this time we do not forget about kisses, ears, words. Eat
one more little thing - move your legs closer to her, put them between hers
legs and press it to the “pussy”, she will tell you how to press it hard. Hy and
Press yourself with your member, as she gets more and more aroused, you can imitate the movements during the act.
But let's get back to the chest. Now you can clasp it with your palm,
picking it up as if from below, the thumb and index finger stroke the nipple
(carefully). Further caresses are already stronger (I assume that all this is for her
I like it) you can strongly grasp and squeeze your breasts.
Breast kisses. You lick the nipple from bottom to top with your tongue, suck it all
don’t try to take the breast into your mouth, just the nipple and the adjacent one are enough
area. With the back of the tongue - circular movements around the nipple,
then use the tip of your tongue to tease the tip of the nipple - let the lady see it, on
try to portray pleasure on your face (this is all boredom...)
Caress the other breast with your hand, don’t linger on one breast for too long,
between the breasts it is also very pleasant for them when you kiss. Licking movements with the tongue, sucking kisses - not much. Clavicles, shoulders - sucking kisses, biting with teeth hidden behind the lips, perhaps not hidden if the lady likes slight pain. Just don't get carried away.
If you stroke your shoulders, the movements are of medium strength, light.
on the contrary, they will calm you down.
Buttocks. In the middle on both sides there are two sensitive
places, kiss them, tickle them with your tongue. Squeeze the butt with your hands with a medium and stronger caress, fingers, palm, but not roughly - marks remain and it hurts the lady. Don't be shy to ask why she moaned - it may well be that you are too cruel.
I don’t take into account the back and legs - somehow I didn’t meet any ladies, y
of which these places are sensitive. Let this be a task for
self-study
The inner surface of the thighs - light caresses, fingers seem to run over
skin, caress the hairs (they are there, there is a light fluff, try first
just stroke it), then move your palm from the knee and above, but not
hurry to touch “it”, even if she herself asks. Kiss
with strong movements, lick your tongue very, very hard, then return to your ears and kiss them, demonstrating strong arousal, pressing your member as hard as you can, breathing into your ears hotly, hotly, showing your desire.
In principle, you can insert it, the girl must be ready... But this
not the highest grade, unclean work.
Now it’s good to walk lightly over the chest again, go down stroking
movements along the back to the ass, strongly (not rudely, I say again - everything
you will fight off the desire!) squeeze them, press your penis against the “pussy” and...
Nothing. The lady should sigh, hug you and show you what she wants. AND
let He'll get over it for now. The fingers again move to the inside
the surface of the thighs and at the end of your upward movement, touch the labia. (Damn, that’s the right word for me!) You touch her where the vagina is, with a little finger inside.
Your lips are again near her ears, your penis presses against her and no longer hides,
you completely move as if you are fucking her. You do it with your finger
movement up, to the clitoris, and, without pausing, down again, the rest
fingers move over her lips. Do this several times, then the middle one
finger on the clitoris, caress it. The movements are circular, counterclockwise. Hy,
in fact, you can bring her to orgasm without the help of a penis...
Go back down again, stroke the clitoris with the end of your palm, fingers
you penetrate inside, stroke her in a circle, then again deeper, again a little
finger at the entrance, in a circle, fingers up on the clitoris, stroked both down and
deep inside, again in a circle...
After a minute or two of this kind of bullshit, she can already cum. Here
such a moment - you haven’t finished, right? She's uncomfortable with it, which is good
use to ask her to do something she didn't want or couldn't do before. Tell her how pleasant it was for you to stroke her, and then ask for what you want.
Orgasm is the highest point of pleasure that a person receives during sex or masturbation. Speaking about how to quickly bring to orgasm, you should understand that this feeling, as such, varies greatly between girls and boys. Therefore, this issue should be considered based on gender.
How to quickly bring a girl to orgasm
This is the first thing we will consider in this material. Firstly, the key to a bright and quick orgasm is a high degree of arousal of the fair half of humanity. Therefore, a man should not rush too much and immediately get into his chosen one’s panties. Before starting the act of love, it is advisable to take a shower and then lie naked with each other. At the same time, it is recommended to kiss the girl’s neck and ears. Representatives of the fair half of humanity are very excited by whispering and breathing into the ear and neck area. Say her name, say sweet things, but don't be vulgar. Slowly press your partner harder and harder so that he feels your rough masculine, but at the same time gentle strength.
Gradually, you need to move from the neck to the chest, stroking the nipple, kissing it, biting it a little. Then clasp your chest with your palm, gently squeeze it, gradually increase the impact. The main thing is not to overdo it and not hurt your chosen one. Gradually it is worth moving on to stroking and squeezing the buttocks and thighs. Move your finger near the labia, but do not touch them. The close proximity of a man's hands, combined with the lack of contact, will make the girl “catch fire.” Next, the man should touch the labia with his penis, but not insert the organ into the vagina. Repeat kissing the neck, chest, make the girl sweat a little while waiting for the act to begin. It is advisable to “play” with the clitoris with your finger.
Only after all this, when you feel that your partner is very excited, begin sexual intercourse. Don't rush, build up the pace little by little. If you enter a girl from behind, try not to forget about the clitoris and stimulate it with your fingers. This is very important, since many girls are not able to come without strong clitoral stimulation. These tips will help quickly bring a woman to orgasm, unless, of course, she is frigid.
How to quickly bring a man to orgasm
As for the question of how to bring a man to orgasm quickly, here, as a rule, it is a little simpler. The fastest way to bring a man to orgasm is with your hands. To do this, you need to clasp the genital organ with your hand, imitating the muscles of the vagina. Gradually it is necessary to increase the pace of friction. Another effective method is oral stimulation of the penis using the lips and tongue. Such caresses lead to a bright and quick orgasm.
There are many ways to bring a girl to orgasm during sex. But it is important to understand that orgasm in girls is different from male orgasm, where it is enough to concentrate all your attention on the penis in order to stimulate it and cause ejaculation. To achieve a female orgasm, much more effort is required, aimed at the whole body and sensations in general.
Unfortunately, most women who have sex, even with a beloved partner, do not achieve the highest point of pleasure and satisfaction - while sexual life without these pleasant sensations is simply not possible.
We would like to please you with simple and effective tips on how to bring any woman to orgasm and thereby make you a legend in the bedroom, since a man who knows exactly how to bring a woman to orgasm during quality sex will definitely have his partners return. So why not make both sexual partners happy?
Step 1
ALWAYS start with foreplay before sex. This ensures that she is mentally, emotionally and physically ready for good lovemaking. And try not to rush foreplay, trying to “invest” in a couple of minutes and quickly move on to sex.
Caress her body gently and lovingly until you feel that she is ready - her vagina has become wet, because when sexual tension reaches its climax, you will achieve her orgasm much easier.
Step #2
Oral sex is a great way to bring a girl to orgasm. In fact, many women claim that cunnilingus is the only way for them to achieve orgasm. As you work your way down her body, take your time. Enjoy the process as well as the destination. So, lick her outer genitals gently and with feeling before picking up the pace and then moving on to the inner genitals, penetrating deeply with your tongue.
At the same time, make small circles with your tongue, you can even bite her labia and suck on her clitoris. This is the most reliable way to bring a girl to orgasm.
Step #3
You can also apply oral stimulation using your fingers. Place your index and middle fingers together and then begin to move them in circles around her clitoris. With your other hand you can caress the girl's entire body. Don't forget to listen to her moans to understand that you are doing everything right or, on the contrary, something is wrong. As soon as you realize that you are doing exactly what brings her pleasure, do not miss the moment and continue your caresses. This is a great way to bring a girl to orgasm.
Step #4
If she hasn't yet reached orgasm, then it's time for G-spot stimulation. After stimulating her clitoris with your fingers, go ahead and slowly and gently penetrate her vagina, palm up.
Once inside, move your fingers to the 11:00 position. Slowly and carefully use your fingers to look for a small bump or bump. If you have found this mysterious and legendary area, then congratulations - you have found the G-spot!
Step #5
Stimulate with slightly sharp and patting movements, gently but quickly. You can also press it a little, release it and repeat this process, as if you were constantly pressing the bell button. Some women find it very exciting if a man begins to draw small, random circles around the G-spot with his fingers. Continue until the girl has an orgasm - it’s definitely just around the corner!
Have a great sex time! Love each other!
Not just physical satisfaction, they like to enjoy its sensitivity and emotional side along with sexual pleasure. Men, on the other hand, focus on physical satisfaction during sex, and this deprives women of the pleasure they want to receive. Men love to please women, but due to lack of knowledge about sex, they are unable to do so, which ends up with a "cool" attitude towards sex among women. The survey noted that more than 50% of women are dissatisfied with their sex life and this puts a big question mark on a man's abilities. Men really need to know how to make a girl orgasm, otherwise it may lead to divorce later due to unsatisfied sex life. If you want your girlfriend to enjoy sex, you need to know these techniques.
With these techniques, your girl will rise to the heights of orgasm every time.
1. Create a mood.
Men are always ready for sex, but women have to get in the mood before they are ready for sex. Women feel awakened only when you create the appropriate mood. Have a candlelit dinner and dance with her to her favorite song, she will get into the mood and really crave sex. So, creating the mood is the first step that will allow the girl to get pleasure.
2. Prelude
Foreplay is the most important part in sex. Only through foreplay can you send your beloved to the heights of ecstasy. The girl just needs a long foreplay. Women are slow chargers compared to men, so men have to pay a lot of attention to foreplay otherwise they may end up even before the lover warms up. If you "jump right into action" without foreplay, this can be very painful for the girl, and then she will avoid sexual relations with you. Remember that foreplay provides essential lubrication to the vagina.
3. Continue slowly.
Women are slower to get into the mood than men. Men only need 2 minutes to reach orgasm, while women need at least 15 minutes to reach orgasm. Men need to slowly move towards their goal. For men, a slow pace should prevail as they must maintain a steel-like erection throughout intercourse. Women get real pleasure when they see that their guy gives them enough time to enjoy the sensations.
4. Spend time on all parts of your body.
Remember that women need arousal from the entire body to be involved in sex. By paying attention only to the reproductive organ, you alienate women because they only love partners who pay attention to all parts of the body. Try kissing her on the lips whenever you initiate sex, stimulate and tease her on every part of her body and she will enjoy intimacy with you.
5. Clitoral stimulation.
Women feel intense sexual pleasure when the clitoris is stimulated. Like a man's penis, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the female reproductive system. More than 70% of women achieve orgasm only with clitoral stimulation. But please start clitoral stimulation last, because no woman will like it if you immediately start touching her clitoris.
6. Breast stimulation
Breasts are sensitive parts of the body and should be given adequate attention if you want to please your lover. Be gentle when handling the breasts, use your fingers to gently touch her nipple and make circular movements around it. This will give her great pleasure from sex and create the right mood. You will be surprised to see how she will reach orgasm just by stimulating her breasts. So, these are the techniques that give great pleasure to women during sex. Use them to please your lover and she will love you even more.
